I think the confusion comes from what we feel when we experience
real connection on the dance floor. I'm not talking about those brilliant dances that leave you wanting more, or the dances where you just seem to gel. I am talking about those mind blowing exceptional dances that you just
can't put words to, just can't explain what you feel. These dances don't leave you wanting more. With these dancers a second dance would be dangerous!
The feelings experienced during one of these dances are difficult to describe and difficult to understand. They make you excited.
Too excited. They leave you feeling giddy in a way that doesn't seem to make sense and you just don't understand. The only other time you experience this in life tends to be with your sexual partner.
This is where the confusion comes in.
As a very happily married woman who dances with many men I have had lots of discussions with my husband about the different types of connections on the dance floor. There is only one other dancer who leaves me feeling giddy and I had issues with this. I actually felt guilty. Stokie knows when I have danced with him just by the look on my face afterwards. This guilt and the way he left me feeling was an issue for me. I didn't understand it.
However I now understand a little more. It's just confusing those feelings and needing to put words to them and in doing so mistakenly linking them to the other times when I have felt them which have always been sexual.
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