Ugly women/men don’t get dances

[Tazmanian Devil]

As for Amir not being good looking, I suspect one or two ladies may disagree with you....

*cough* I highlighted Bow and Greenwich, I said nothing about Jango. I couldn't possibly comment as I don't go regular.

[Ghost]

*coough* I highlighted Bow and Greenwich,

Ah in that case I apologise - too subtle for me

Be Well,
Christopher

[WittyBird]

You're all ugly. OK?

Actually I think I'm gorgeous and love myself more than I do anyone else apart from LW infact I am so far up my own ar$e I'm fighting for oxygen. Yes that's right.

David NoDances, they'll call me...

Yep me thinks so...........

[Tazmanian Devil]

You're all ugly. OK?

You didn't have to rub it in

*goes and hides in a dark cuboard where no-one can find me*

[Ghost]

You didn't have to rub it in

*goes and hides in a dark cuboard where no-one can find me*

Just realised we've mutated the thread into the Singletons Sofa

Taz I stand by my original statement regarding the ladies at Bow / Greenwich, especially the demos.

Someone else want to get this thread back on track?

[David Bailey]

{ fishy fishy fishy }

I'm gonna buy me a barrel and some dynamite...

[Lynn]

You're all ugly. OK?

But some of us wear really pretty dance shoes.

[WittyBird]

I'm gonna buy me a barrel and some dynamite...

Thought it had already been delivered

[WittyBird]

love myself more than I do anyone else apart from LW

Just before anyone else has a go at me for being horrid to Drathzel I think I should point out that LW is Little Witty my 10 year old daughter and not Lone Wolf Danielles BF

[LilyB]

When I first started dancing ................. I had dark brown hair, peoples attitude is very different now i'm ............. blond.

Also it was amazing the difference in men's attitude to me when i had my new boobs, there were men asking me to dance that had never asked me before say things like 'where do you normally dance I haven't seen you hear before' its obviously wasn't my face they were looking at.

Aha! Therein lies the solution to my feelings of inadequacy. Peroxide and boob-job.

Then men will ask me to dance, guaranteed.

[Andreas]

Aha! Therein lies the solution to my feelings of inadequacy. Peroxide and boob-job.

Then men will ask me to dance, guaranteed.

Don't you dare! David! David?! Where is this fella when one needs him.

Somebody keep H2O2 and silicon away from this woman ... or the other way around!

[Gadget]

Why oh why oh why do these threads always turn into fishing expeditions?

Why oh why oh why do some people always seem to think a critical self-examination or low self-esteme is fishing?

[David Bailey]

Why oh why oh why do some people always seem to think a critical self-examination or low self-esteme is fishing?

I'm just Mr Snooty, I guess.

Seriously, all of these "attractiveness" discussions seem to fall prey to this desperate tendency to personalise things. As in "Oh, I can't believe people turn you down, you're gorgeous, etc etc."

I dunno, flippin forum luvvies grump grump grump...

[Gadget]

I'm just Mr Snooty, I guess.

Seriously, all of these "attractiveness" discussions seem to fall prey to this desperate tendency to personalise things. As in "Oh, I can't believe people turn you down, you're gorgeous, etc etc."

I dunno, flippin forum luvvies grump grump grump...

Didn't get a chance to add a to that comment before the cat decided to post it { bloody felines!}

Of course they turn into lovie threads; we are all lovies
But that dosn't stop the fact that I know some (most?) people are insecure about looks and beauty within themselves. Just as I know that some of the same people are among the most attractive and beautiful people I know.
Personally, I'm closer to medical magazine than model magazine, but I have attitude, a 'presence', self-confidence, a good ear and fairly sharp mind; these compensate for a lot {oh, and an ego }

[Ghost]

I'm just Mr Snooty, I guess.

Seriously, all of these "attractiveness" discussions seem to fall prey to this desperate tendency to personalise things. As in "Oh, I can't believe people turn you down, you're gorgeous, etc etc."

I dunno, flippin forum luvvies grump grump grump...

Interesting - I was looking at it from the other side - lurkers. There's nearly 2000 Forum members. Plus there's the people we talk to. Just because you're not on the Forum doesn't mean the comments won't get fed back, or indeed discussed. I was looking at the Filthycute thread where Tara actualy picked up on the fact her site was being discussed!

I wouldn't be surprised if there's lurkers reading the comments thinking "Yep, that's me". I'd rather they went away thinking that at least some people do want to dance with them.

I think it's a good thing to show that we do care about each other.

What I think the thread doesn't address is friendship. Learn to dance Ceroc with your friends - make new friends and dance with them. You don't have to be alone sitting in the corner (unless you're painfully shy in which case )

Be Well,
Christopher

[ducasi]

(Are men really that clever though?)

Yup. Our shallowness is quite profound really.

[Minnie M]

When I go dancing with my young slim pretty friends, I am always left sitting unless there are some guys who know me or I ask for a dance..... However, the other weekend when dancing in Ashtead I got asked to dance by a quite nice looking chap who I have never seen before, and we had such a fabby dance - our dancing styles just clicked and he kept coming back for more, and I saw him at MJC this weekend and he couldn't wait to get me on the dance floor

So moral of the story is - always ask at least one complete stranger to dance (who is NOT pretty) each event you go to, you never know who you might 'click' with and it is such a nice surprise

[robd]

I don't go regular.

Eat more fibre, Taz

[WittyBird]

Eat more fibre, Taz

[whitetiger1518]

I don't think that anyone should lose out on dances just because they look one way or another. I don't consider myself good looking, and I am a natural brunette - but last night as I was going home I counted the number of dances I had with the guys at Jumping Jak's

I couldn't believe it : 25!


It probably is because I am a pushy little monster, and ask before potential partners have got their breath back from their last dance (If that is the reason you said yes last night then thank you for putting up with me )

I just think that if I don't ask then (a) I won't learn and (b) I might fold up like I do at work - and hide in the darkest corner, not taking part at all...

The persona that happens (not deliberate I promise! ) to me at CEROC is definitely NOT the one that work gets shown - I definitely have more confidence since starting CEROC.


Cheers

Whitetiger