That would only work if the poll was anonymous because some people might feel they are good looking but wouldn't want people to think them arrogant.
Originally Posted by Aleks
You’re dead right. Think I’ve mentioned this before, but my non-forum friend whom I go with is much slimmer than me (weight, or slimness seeming to be one of those factors that affects “attractiveness”), but sometimes her body language just screams “leave me alone” – so the guys do. And I’ll get asked to dance instead, because I’m standing around looking, uhm, “available” (to dance that is!)
And the less she gets asked to dance, then the louder her body language speaks. And it’s not that she’s unattractive (she's very pretty) – she’s just shy.Originally Posted by stewart38
Last edited by Twirly; 14th-August-2006 at 02:25 PM.
That would only work if the poll was anonymous because some people might feel they are good looking but wouldn't want people to think them arrogant.
I was at Luton on Friday, and was kept busy trying to give all of the ladies I knew a dance. I was asked twice. I spent most of the rest of my time trying to give ladies that were not getting their share a turn. I asked 4 unknown ladies for a dance just based on their looks.Originally Posted by Lory
I regret that I am still unable to recognise Lory. I had two possibles in mind as being her, but never saw either of those free.
There were a few what are to me special tracks and I scoured the ladies sitting out for any that looked like they were up for them, but saw no-one. I think that the vibes being given off have a lot to do with how often people are asked.
mmmmmm well I asked you to dance, must have been your BIG SMILE and bubberly personalityOriginally Posted by stewart38
I tend to choose women on their dance ability, and will like others here, quite often sit out and watch. Only women I avoid are those who I classify as grippers, or miserable cows (no eye contact, no smile, and usually a bitter and twisted individual).
I always make a point of dancing with beginners.
Going back to when I started dancing, I use to be very nervous about dancing with women who tended to be good looking and dressed to impress (lots of bling and sparkle on). Experience as shown that these ladies as a rule, tend to be average dancers at best, and in some cases bloody awful. Given a choice I will always opt for a good dancer than for someone's looks. Unless of course Angeline Jolie happens along to one of the venues I visit
Onkar
are there loads more women at Luton then , i live 8 miles from there only been twice maybe i could help outOriginally Posted by bigdjiver
You've not met Sparkles then, Onkar?Originally Posted by onkar
Piglet,Originally Posted by Piglet
Are you saying that your head isn't as good as Aleks'?!?
OK, OK... 96 to go...
Just thinking this through.... shouldn't Ceroc venues end up like this:
The ugly bad dancers only dance with each other
The ugly good dancers only dance with each other
Good looking bad dancers only dance with each other
Good looking good dancers only dance with each other
I did once ask someone to rate me out of 10 for looks and personality
Oh and for good looking above average dancers - try Jango (and Greenwich / Bow )
Dance in beauty,
Christopher
Yep and nope but she aint sharing my man to prove it!Originally Posted by Ceroc Jock
Which reminds me - did you see that Dawn French interview of comedians last night - excellent line from Sarah Silverman
"I was licking jello off a pen1s the other night when I thought "OH NO!"..
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I really am turning into my mother!"
(God forbid! is all I can say! And sorry for hijacking your very entertaining thread Stewart)
Last edited by Piglet; 14th-August-2006 at 03:02 PM.
LW thinks you are really sexy too!Originally Posted by Piglet
So men are shallow and women see the inner beauty? Hmmm, maybe.Originally Posted by TiggsTours
I'm sure we've had this one a lot of times - I say what I've said a lot of times in response.
Attractive (e.g. dress sexy, good figure, everything on display, "signals" etc.) women are more popular, because they're attractive. They'll get more dances than unattractive ones, all things being equal. Life is tough that way.
However, they may not get better quality dances, because the more experienced male dancers usually choose the better female dancers, not the better-looking female dancers.
So I think they'll learn a lot, quickly, because of the volume of initial dances - but then I think they may plateau, and find it more difficult to get good dances and to improve than the ones who've had to work their way up the hard way.
Probably true - but of the men who say that, how many are really good dancers?Originally Posted by TiggsTours
Christ, I have - too many times. They're the ones who think they know everything - they tend to make each dance a painful experience.Originally Posted by Piglet
FWIW, my personal criteria for "choosing a dance partner" are, in order of importance:
- Dance ability
- Attitude
- Looks
Well from a females perspective I'm happy to dance with anyone of any ability, age, good or not so good looking. Is obviously a bonus to dance with a gorgeous hunk who's a fabulous dancer. The only thing that makes me not want to dance with a man is when they stink of B.O. like they haven't bathed for a week & never used deodorant. Or someone that is so rough that it feels more like a wrestling match than a dance.
How do you assess this if you've never set eyes on them before?Originally Posted by DavidJames
You can't *always* tell by watching someone. Dunno what guys look for in followers.
However, by watching for even part of a track (more than a few seconds!) it is fairly easy to see if a lead is dancing on time and what sort of moves they are doing - I tend to avoid asking "drop monsters" and pretzel addicts. Co-ordination is also sometimes "spottable" - is the lead dancing 'neatly' or are they dancing with huge steps and/or arms and legs seem to be all over the place. I tend to avoid asking leads that look like demented frogs. Whether their partner looks like they are enjoying themselves can also occasionally be an indicator.
None of this is foolproof though - as connection and individual style vary and preferences vary so much. There are guys I enjoy dancing with who others don't, and vice versa.
Funnily enough, I find that if I don't manage to grab someone in that crucial 1st 30 second window of a track, I'm more likely to get approached for a dance if I go and sit down than if I carry on standing by the dancefloor.Originally Posted by spindr
I have no idea why that is.
I know her as a forumite, but don't think I have danced with her. What category would you put her in Rob?
Onkar
For Goodness sake you can't treat people like thatOriginally Posted by onkar
Leave the poor girl alone or I will start putting you in categories and I think you can give it but can't take it.
*** what is it with the boys today?
Originally Posted by LMC
Thats easy, see if the leader is struggling/straining.
Onkar
You would put me what 9 on looks 10 on personailityOriginally Posted by WittyBird
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