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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    I have very mixed feelings about Laybacks.

    Mostly POSITIVE

    The Good - I have a bad back and a well executed slow layback is fantastic for making it feel better. If my back is feeling sore I will even request several laybacks for medicinal purposes.

    The way I like it is like this....I need to be close to the man with his right hand very low on my back, below my waist. We bend our knees. As Andreas mentioned I grip his right thigh between mine (for security and balance ) and lift my heels (very important) as I curl back. I try and keep my weight above my own feet as far as possible but I do need some frame from the guy to get myself back up. The position of the man's arms is crucial but on my own I can't work out where it is I like them to be. I have no idea how heavy I am to haul back up, but I am intending to be as light as possible.


    Some Negative

    The Bad -I danced with someone who was all fired up with dancing in a troupe to 'Do you Love Me'. That song was playing and they were inspired to treat me just like their troupe partner and I was pushed back so hard into a layback that I wrenched my back. It was very stiff and hurt a lot for about 3 months.

    The other things that feel horrid are a too tight hold around my waist, not enough knee bending, worried look on man's face, and untrustworthy arms...

    ZW

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    If I am thinking about a completely different move then the rest of this post is going to be rubbish.

    If I am understanding the descriptions of this move correctly then is certainly a move that I regard as so dangerous that I will only do it with someone that I have trained with away from the social dance floor so that we both know each other and we have worked things out slowly and carefully before. Currently I will only use this move with 3 people. In that context it can look a dramatic move when it is fitted to some accent points in music. It is just so fraught with danger when done by people with more enthusiasm than control.

    The things that we worked on for using this move are.

    POSITION OF FEET - basically interleaved with my thigh that is going to support the womans pelvis between her thighs. If the woman is much shorter than me she moves onto her toes to get her pelvis as high up my thigh as possible and I sink down a little since it will be more stable when we go into the layback. Start with the womans crutch as near to the top of the guys thigh as possible with firm contact pressure. Nothing less will do.

    GRIP - I really prefer having either both hands connected by a butterfly hand grip or with both my hands on the ladies shoulder blades. I just find that I can control things better that way. The best reason to have one hand on the top of the womans pelvis/lower back is to stop her from sliding down your thigh because she hasn't tilted her pelvis forward and up (see below).

    GOING DOWN - The lady tips her pelvis forward and up. This is my best signal that the lady is ready to start the move and it means that as she goes into the lay back position her pelvis rotates with her so that she finshes with the tailbone part of her pelvis resting on my (by then horizontal thigh). This part is very important if you are doing this move in a performance with a 13 stone guy as your partner. If he doesn’t tilt and rotate his pelvis then he has crushed nuts and a sudden inability to remember choreography. All too often I have seen this move done badly where the woman tries to keep her pelvis vertical as her spine moves to the horizontal position and the lower part of the spine does all the bending. Once the woman has tilted her pelvis she moves her shoulders back SLIGHTLY to engage her connection with me and only then do I let my arms out smoothly to control the layback. It is at this point it is very helpful to have all the cushions from your sofa on the floor behind the woman when you are practicing. As the lady is doing the layback I am sinking down in a sumo wrestler like squat (to ensure my thigh is in constant contact with her pelvis - if it isn't she has every right to feel scared because she cannot feel her support under the base of the spine) until my thigh ends up nearly horizontal. As this is all happening my torso is angling backwards enough to counterbalance the lady. If you are going to make an error in the counterbalance it should be that the man is providing too much rather than too little. If you fall towards the woman then her head will hit the floor first and you will then land on top of her. It is best that the lady does not throw her head backwards or she risks a whiplash injury to her neck especially if the leader chooses exactly that moment to pull the lady up too fast. Ladies need to keep their pelvis, spine and neck all in a straight line.

    GET ON UP – Pretty much the same as going down. PLEASE ladies don't try to get yourself up. Let us do it or it really upsets our counterbalancing. Think PLANK. The lift needs to be smooth, progressive and matched to each other. Violent applications of power may make you feel macho but it will hurt some part of your partner and the unsteady result will make you both look like dicks. Only once you are both up to the vertical can the leader think about letting go of the woman. The leader also provides the role of a “safety cage” for the woman at this point and only when the woman is up and obviously stable does the man step backwards to open out some space for you to start dancing again.

    Key messages.

    ONLY do it with someone that you have practiced it slowly and carefully with.
    Even then don’t spring it on her. Let her see it coming. (or have a quiet word of warning).
    Position of feet. Get pelvis to top of thigh. It is a move for good friends.
    Get a grip. Nothing wishy washy will do.
    The woman leads the start of the layback not you. She has right to abort at any time.
    Power with control. No pushing down, no yanking up. Smooth.
    Tilt the pelvis. Keep pelvis, spine and neck in a straight line all the way through.
    Ensure your woman is upright, balanced and stable before ending your safety role.
    Last edited by Chef; 28th-June-2006 at 02:55 PM.

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    Quote Originally Posted by Chef
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    Start with the womans crutch as near to the top of the guys thigh as possible with firm contact pressure. Nothing less will do.
    How many women go dancing when they are on crutches?

    To be serious, I hate this move and I've always found it difficult as I've never been taught how to do it. I thought that as it feels so indecent to make contact with ones crotch on the man's upper thigh, that I must be doing something wrong. So, I valiantly try to support my own weight on my dodgy knees whilst praying for the move to be over PDQ.

    Please Gus, don't encourage men to use it....

    Daisy

    (A Crutchless Little FLower)

    Imagine being A Crotchless Little FLower on a dance night

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    Quote Originally Posted by Daisy Chain
    I thought that as it feels so indecent to make contact with ones crotch on the man's upper thigh
    Hell, that's half my repertoire gone

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    OK, so now I've got the gist of what the move is, I think I can say - I like them! Although I've usually done them with a sweep where I lay back to my right, swoosh round and come up to my left (is this a variation or is it a different move and I've got the wrong end of the stick?). I've not done that many but certainly enjoyed the experiences (most of which were in the Blues Room at Storm). The only point where I have felt there was any danger was when my head nearly collided with the dancer behind me's leg, rather than anything to do with the actual move itself. I must say though, I think I may have been led into this move more often than I have done it, but being the 'sensible' little thing that I am didn't want to throw myself (not literally! Honestly!) backwards if that wasn't the intention!

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    I <3
    LAYBACKS



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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    Quote Originally Posted by Daisy Chain

    How many women go dancing when they are on crutches?
    What can I say? A senior moment! A correctly spelt but wrong choice of word. I am starting to lose my marbles. And I really wanted to learn Tango before I went ga ga.

    Quote Originally Posted by Daisy Chain
    To be serious, I hate this move and I've always found it difficult as I've never been taught how to do it.
    I am sure that if both you and your partner(s) were taught how to do it properly then you both might grow to like it. I remember learning the pretzel - done badly it feels horrible but the changes needed to make it feel nice are small but important.

    Quote Originally Posted by Daisy Chain
    I thought that as it feels so indecent to make contact with ones crotch on the man's upper thigh, that I must be doing something wrong.
    Well yes, it is something that you are doing wrong. By tilting your pelvis forward and up you actually start engaging contact with the mans thigh at about the point of the perineum (sp?) and then almost immediately start the pelvis rolling backwards so that the support point quickly moves from the bum cheeks to the upper pelvis. If you don't do this rolling action then you just end up feeling like a dog that is humping somebodies thigh and doing the bending of the lower spine thing. Not pleasant for either party.

    Quote Originally Posted by Daisy Chain
    So, I valiantly try to support my own weight on my dodgy knees whilst praying for the move to be over PDQ.
    Pretty much impossible because the layback action just about requires the woman to move onto her toes. It also makes it nearly impossible for the guy to feel stable. If your pelvis is not in contact with his thigh and you are trying to support your weight on your tippy toes then you just feel unstable in his arms with your mass swinging from side to side. It just feels like holding a Slinky spring. Put your weight on the guys thigh. It usually anchors his thigh and foot on the floor and makes sure it doesn't go anywhere. If you try to support yourself on your toes you can end up pushing the mans knee sideways and the is absolutely nothing he can then do to recover the situation.

    Quote Originally Posted by Daisy Chain
    Please Gus, don't encourage men to use it....
    Please Gus, train men AND women to do it properly and even then ONLY together. One person in the partnership knowing how to do it and not the other just will not work.

    Quote Originally Posted by Daisy Chain
    Imagine being A Crotchless Little FLower on a dance night
    OK, I am trying to imagine it. It must be cool and very refreshing.

    Just make sure you don't do an airstep known as the cartwheel (or one called a Hanger).

    Or you might be a pornographic little flower,
    Last edited by Chef; 29th-June-2006 at 12:13 PM.

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    Quote Originally Posted by Chef
    Please Gus, train men AND women to do it properly and even then ONLY together. One person in the partnership knowing how to do it and not the other just will not work.
    Its a bit like teaching drops ... I'm not the greatest fan of it but if you have people doing it badly do you just ignore the problem or do you try to teach them the correct way? I'd like to teach laynacks properly, I think they do have a role to play in Blues. However, I have to be honest with myself and at the moment I dont know if I'm good enough to teach them Got a few weekends to do some work on the teaching model before I make a decision as to whether to include in the workshop or not.

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    I am not one for reading (and understanding) descriptions of moves.

    anyone got a picture of a layback in action. (p.s no pictures of sunbeds etc... I am being serious)

    ta

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    Quote Originally Posted by Russell Saxby
    I am not one for reading (and understanding) descriptions of moves.

    anyone got a picture of a layback in action. (p.s no pictures of sunbeds etc... I am being serious)

    ta



    There is a variation of it. Usually it is executed with both of the lady's feet on the ground. Quality is not good because it is taken off video footage.

    To add to my initial description, the thing that I had forgotten was later mentioned by ZW: Lady gets on her toes.

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    Quote Originally Posted by Andreas
    My advice for teaching the move is also get the guys to take the follower part to see how much trust and sense is involved.
    I'll sometimes put myself into a layback (assuming it's the move I am thinking of) after doing one with a partner. I guess it's not quite what you're suggesting above since I basically just lean back as far as I can whilst keeping my own weight but it's good for a giggle.

    Not sure whether I really like these as a move though I do think they could be used in a musical way (contrary to the belief of an earlier poster). I don't do them v well. I'm probably one of the people ZW mentions as having a "worried look on man's face," - though that's probably as much to do with her wanting me to put my hands "very low on my back, below my waist." (Thought: where does the back become the backside? (and does ZW care? ))

    I do know however that I don't like the sweeping variant of these - straight down and straight up is good enough for me. The sweeping variant is
    * much more likely to pull me off balance
    * more likely to result in another dancer coming from nowhere and colliding with the sweepee
    and I think it requires more raw strength with many followers than I have available

    Robert

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    Quote Originally Posted by robd
    I'll sometimes put myself into a layback (assuming it's the move I am thinking of) after doing one with a partner. I guess it's not quite what you're suggesting above since I basically just lean back as far as I can whilst keeping my own weight but it's good for a giggle.

    Not sure whether I really like these as a move though I do think they could be used in a musical way (contrary to the belief of an earlier poster). I don't do them v well. I'm probably one of the people ZW mentions as having a "worried look on man's face," - though that's probably as much to do with her wanting me to put my hands "very low on my back, below my waist."
    Er yes Rob you are one of the ones with a worried look, I think it's because we're not quite counterbalanced in the way Chef describes, so your worried look is probably quite understandable...but I think we will be getting past that quite soon.

    Quote Originally Posted by RobD
    (Thought: where does the back become the backside? (and does ZW care? ))


    Robert
    Yes I do actually Rob , As far as I'm concerned anything bikini area is out of bounds....unless I led it.

    There is a good five inches between my waist and the top of where a bikini would be....

    Oh never mind, I'll show you Saturday.

    Is this a trick question?

    ZW

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    Is this a layback, a dominator, or a highly misleading image to put on the cover of a DVD aimed at Beginners?

    Let your mind go and your body will follow. – Steve Martin, LA Story

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    Hmmm, I got a mail from Cerocchilterns just now. Howard and Nicola are teaching a drops workshop on sunday, and I noticed:

    Quote Originally Posted by the blurb
    Add dynamics and passion to your dancing with a fabulous range of stylish and sexy seducers, sweeping laybacks and dynamic dips and drops!
    (emphasis mine)

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    Quote Originally Posted by Chef
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    ...you just end up feeling like a dog that is humping somebodies thigh and doing the bending of the lower spine thing.
    I just know that next time this happens, I am going to be overcome with the urge to bark.

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    K - now I've seen the images, I know what you're talking about!

    If anyone looked at my "relaxing while dancing" thread, this is one of the moves a particular partner has tried to put me into (and himself, which was actually quite funny - I think I had the strength to hold him, but he couldn't bend backwards!). I didn't know what I was doing, though he did talk me through it. However, I have some back problems (not too severe these days, but don't want it getting worse!), so it's a bit tricky (ditto a tango lunge bend back thingy done at the Wessex House class last week - sorry, not good with the names of moves). Used to be really flexible in the lumbar vertebrae, but am not now - however I've started doing some yoga exercises to loosen up and strengthen that area now that this seems to be on the menu. Assume that the guy must've judged me capable of doing it.

    I wonder if I should be getting myself to a drops/dips etc. workshop as soon as possible though.

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    Quote Originally Posted by Gus
    Its a bit like teaching drops ... I'm not the greatest fan of it but if you have people doing it badly do you just ignore the problem or do you try to teach them the correct way?
    For evil to triumph all that is required is that good people stay silent. You may not cure all evils but you will make a difference. You may not succeed but at least you will be able to say that you tried your best.

    If you have students that really want to learn and you feel competant to teach then go for it I say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chef
    If you have students that really want to learn and you feel competant to teach then go for it I say.
    Sometimes I wonder if its not about been competent but about being not as abad as some of the numpties teaching these moves Drops aren't too bad ... been teaching them for years and been taught how to teach them well. The laybacks are very different. A sweeping layback pulls on about every major muscle group in the lower back, abs and puts a lot of pressure on teh spine ..... not something to enter into lightly. I would love to see how Howard is going to teach them.

    From what I see he's teaching an open class with no fore-knowledge of people's dance capability, physical condition or expectation. . I've got a big advantage on my workshop. I know nearly all the attendees and they've had to be pre-assessed before doing the workshop.

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    So, did anyone ever find out what a dominator was?

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    Re: Laybacks / Dominators

    Quote Originally Posted by DavidJames
    So, did anyone ever find out what a dominator was?
    http://www.cerocscotland.com/forum/s...6&postcount=20 (last post previous page)
    Quote Originally Posted by Gus
    I'm looking to include the move in my Blues Improvers workshop, as a fair few people do it locally (where its known as a Dominator)
    So they are essentially the same thing under two difference names.

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