Personally, I'm happy to do this move with someone I know really well (I mean really well), and where I can feel confident that he's not just after a quick grope, and he does it in keeping with the music and feel of the dance, and not too often. If a guy I didn't know at all, or even just well enough, did that move with me then I would bring my arm down to protect myself, if he got in too quick I would politely tell him that I'm nto comfortable with that move and would he please refrain.
If he tried it again, I'd bring out my infamous first move/knee groin or my lady spin/face slap!
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