Dating dancers - wise?

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[QUOTE=LemonCake;283368]
I've just started a relationship with a dancer so I sure hope it is wise! [QUOTE]

glad to hear you're both admitting what we already knew!!! hope everything works out well for you both

C xx

[WittyBird]

sound great will definatley give it a try will the tin man be there to?

Oh yes, without a doubt we call him the corpse

[LemonCake]

I've just started a relationship with a dancer so I sure hope it is wise!

glad to hear you're both admitting what we already knew!!! hope everything works out well for you both

C xx

Thanks I'm sure it will We decided to accept the inevitable in the end! Just a shame I'm in the wrong hemisphere at the moment! But hey, three months will fly by

[Yliander]

Thanks I'm sure it will We decided to accept the inevitable in the end!

took long enough

Just a shame I'm in the wrong hemisphere at the moment! But hey, three months will fly by

just watch out for the phone bills

[jivebunny]

After writing earlier on that i prefared to dance with younger cute guys, JiveAddicted was miffed that i didn't mention he was the younger guy i dance with, so here i am mentioning that he is the younger guy i dance with!!

[spindr]

just watch out for the phone bills

Can you not Skype?
SpinDr

[Andreas]

I think 'tread carefully' is a good maxim to work by as if it all went wrong it could get awkward. I'm sure this has been covered in another thread as well!

I always kind of fail to see the sense in that, to be honest. Just for a moment try to imagine the person you just started a relationship likes you for the person you are right now. If you start to change that by 'treading carefully', may you not accidentally turn into a 'boring person' that your partner would have never chosen to go out with in the first place? A relationship that is based on what the other person 'could be' rather than what he/she IS then chances of it to succeed are rather limited.

[TallGuyNiceShoes]

After writing earlier on that i prefared to dance with younger cute guys, JiveAddicted was miffed that i didn't mention he was the younger guy i dance with, so here i am mentioning that he is the younger guy i dance with!!

He will no doubt still be miffed as I notice you have missed out the 'cute' bit. Yes he is young but surely cute too?! Someone that I know who has recently met him thinks he is VERY cute or in her words "looks like he has a great bod". Don't tell him though it might go to his head and belive you me he has enough problems thinking about his feet!!! (sooo mean and definitely uncalled for! but he can handle it!!!)

[LemonCake]

took long enough

Yeah yeah, I know!

just watch out for the phone bills

Mmm that's a problem already...

I always kind of fail to see the sense in that, to be honest. Just for a moment try to imagine the person you just started a relationship likes you for the person you are right now. If you start to change that by 'treading carefully', may you not accidentally turn into a 'boring person' that your partner would have never chosen to go out with in the first place? A relationship that is based on what the other person 'could be' rather than what he/she IS then chances of it to succeed are rather limited.

The treading carefully should happen at the stage of deciding whether to pursue the relationship, not being in the relationship. I'm the same person either way, I hope!

[LemonCake]

Someone repped me for this with some useful advice but didn't leave a name... Thank you, and who are you?

[fletch]

JiveAddicted was miffed that i didn't mention he was the younger guy i dance with, so here i am mentioning that he is the younger guy i dance with!!

well he is cute

[jivebunny]

He will no doubt still be miffed as I notice you have missed out the 'cute' bit. Yes he is young but surely cute too?! Someone that I know who has recently met him thinks he is VERY cute or in her words "looks like he has a great bod". Don't tell him though it might go to his head and belive you me he has enough problems thinking about his feet!!! (sooo mean and definitely uncalled for! but he can handle it!!!)

yes he is cute and has a nice bod to!!!

(his head will be getting extremely large now, if he topples over on wednesday i will know why!!)

[cms]

But hey, three months will fly by

exactly - its really not that long! thats what people keep telling me when i say im going away for 9 - 12 months too!

anyway you're both happy so alls good!

C x

[Yliander]

exactly - its really not that long! thats what people keep telling me when i say im going away for 9 - 12 months too!

you will be amazed how quickly the time will fly - I can't believe I have been in the uk nearly 5 months!!!

[WittyBird]

you will be amazed how quickly the time will fly - I can't believe I have been in the uk nearly 5 months!!!

Hasn't it dragged, feels like you been here years

[jiveaddicted]

Someone that I know who has recently met him thinks he is VERY cute or in her words "looks like he has a great bod". Don't tell him though it might go to his head and belive you me he has enough problems thinking about his feet!!! (sooo mean and definitely uncalled for! but he can handle it!!!)

Do tell more Kirk!!!

And im hurt but i'll take it like a man and cry about it later when im alone

M

[Blueshoes]

I never feel obliged to go with my partner - quite the opposite in fact, I want her to be there...it guarantees me some good dances.

As far as dancing with each other enough is concerned, we always dance the first and last dance together. In between, I may not see her for hours at a time. Seems to work for us anyway

I feel just the same way, and your arrangement for dance nights sounds perfect to me. Unfortunately when I've been in the same situation I've been accused of ignoring my girlfriend, and of paying more attention to other people than her. The way I look at it on a dance night I want to dance.

Frustrated from Manchester

[fletch]

Frustrated from Manchester

Frustrated for Birmingham replying

I have neaver dated anyone in dance, well havn't dated in 5.5 years actually but a freind recently told me she tries not to watch her man dance, they split up and meet for a few dances half way through the night, as they get dances, people are less inclined to ask if they think you are a couple and they found it difficult to really get into the dance if there partner was watching seem like a good idea to me

[johnthehappyguy]

I always kind of fail to see the sense in that, to be honest. Just for a moment try to imagine the person you just started a relationship likes you for the person you are right now. If you start to change that by 'treading carefully', may you not accidentally turn into a 'boring person' that your partner would have never chosen to go out with in the first place? A relationship that is based on what the other person 'could be' rather than what he/she IS then chances of it to succeed are rather limited.

john

[robd]

Don't tell him though it might go to his head and belive you me he has enough problems thinking about his feet!!! (sooo mean and definitely uncalled for! but he can handle it!!!)

Surely his REAL problems would start if YOU were thinking about his feet Kirk.............