Thanks Beo – it’s not that I believe that nobody loves me, and it’s not self pity that I’m suffering from here, even if it sounds like it and I’ve had that in the past.
I have lots of friends, most of whom traipsed across the country at the end of last year to help celebrate a rather important birthday. I have friends who will turn up in the middle of the night because I’ve fallen over and hit my head – despite the fact that they are scared of going out at night. I therefore assume that I must be a nice person to be around since I inspire such loyalty (and I am a loyal friend in return).
However, after more than a decade of being single more than 90% of the time, you just begin to make assumptions that you aren’t attractive for some reason – how can you not? I would say that I can’t remember the last time a man asked me out, but I’d be lying. I can, it’s just embarrassing how long ago it was.
Right, that’s enough self-revelation!
My point in picking up on what Patrick said is serious though. Please think before you post what appears to be a throw away comment – it can have an effect on other people which you might not expect.
Right, I’m off to toughen up…
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