Originally Posted by Simon r
Pot, Kettle and Black spring to mind Mr Rich
Boring to dance with
Exhausting to dance with
Wrong type of dancer
Far too good/intimidating for me
Sleazy/ smelly
Often leaves me feeling battered or dizzy
Often leaves me feeling depressed
Once caused me a serious injury
I don’t know him/her
I ‘just don’t get’ him/her
Special song for someone else
Other
Maybe he's just walking towards someone else. Some women accuse me of walking away from or avoiding them earlier in the evening - usually while I'm dancing with them I never walk away from anyone when I see them coming towards me. But I do have a good idea who I'm going to ask next and usually rush over before they get asked by another guy. To any woman behind me it might look like a hasty retreat - but only if she was of that particular mind-set.Originally Posted by CeeCee
Tell her to forget about this guy and ask me. How will you/she know me? I'll be the one rushing in the opposite direction into the arms of another woman
Originally Posted by Simon r
Pot, Kettle and Black spring to mind Mr Rich
Originally Posted by Dizzy
Yes, think you have the right idea. I used to have hurt feelings when refused, but now have decided to stick to the people whose body language is a lot friendlier..
Its pointless having your night spoiled by someone saying 'no', I daresay most of the time it isnt personal.. well, I hope not.
However, I am less likely to ask someone I havent danced with before, for fear of refusal on a few occasions.. It depends on my mood, if I am willing to take a chance and feeling daring, I will 'go for it'.. sometimes, I will just stick with my mates.. having a good dance with a mate is always guaranteed fun!!
Originally Posted by Msfab
sorry explain....
She means you must do it too.. hahaOriginally Posted by Simon r
Lee
Sorry but private messaging this person.Originally Posted by Lee
I do not know who she is and quote " it is not important who i am" apperently does not know me as i have never refused a dance unless
1. knackered and cant stand let alone dance
2. need a change of shirt
3. need a drink
If this is the case i would of course give this explanation and then try to find them after.
Like i said don't know MSfab and this person really really does not know me
Originally Posted by Simon r
...um... are you Simon, of Simon and Lisa, who won the 2005 Britroc Open in Brighton?!
...hehe... MsFab is going to have a shock when she opens up her mail tommorow morning!
...I hope this isn't too forward - But she sounds like she was only teasing Simon, and will probably feel terrible tommorow. I wouldn't really worry about it, you come across as a nice amiable kinda chap in real life... and thats what counts
Yes, he is that Simon.Originally Posted by marty_baby
And I've never known Simon to be rude or anything but a great guy. Although we all know he's a bit fat and not as pretty as me
Simon you do know MsFab! she comes to Jango all the time!! I guess that you just didn't realise she was on the forum! It's all these silly secretive names, why can't everyone use their real name like me Im sure she was only playing with you hun. We all know that underneath that sarcasm and p**s taking exterior, you're just lovely. Don't take it seriously, i'm sure she'll be upset if she realises you have been offended.Originally Posted by Simon r
Originally Posted by Simon r
There is nothing nice about being refused when asking someone to dance, especially when its more than once...
There is nothing nice about being refused when asking someone to dance, especially when its more than once...
Especially when, on the rare occasions, you pluck up the courage to ask the top dancers!
Sorry, I kinda started that off, i must say i've never heard a bad thing said about you, only good stuff, so yer i assume she was teasing, i assumed you had not heard of the 'pot kettle black' saying that's all.Originally Posted by Simon r
Lee
I have spoken to Simon r and explained what I meant by my original post, All sorted.Originally Posted by Simon r
Its all bridge under the water!
Phew! I thought I was going to have to bang some heads together....Originally Posted by Msfab
Damn. You've kissed and made up far too soon. I was looking forward to a good scrap.Originally Posted by Msfab
M
"I'm going to practise all the pretzel variations I know" (during Fire... and it was the last track )
Can I turn him down next time? Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeease... (actually, I'll just pre-empt by asking him on a track which suits pretzels slightly better, I just wanted to have a whinge)
A couple of years ago I 'accused' a fellow forumite of rudely refusing a dance with me - I didn't mention his name but gave a clue which a few people picked up on (haven't got the time for the "Harperlink")
I was then, inundated with PM's and quite a few strong posts by my fellow forumites all in his defence
His reason was he was tired, but I hadn't even got back to where I was standing when I saw him dancing with a very pretty young girl.
If, and for what ever reason, you refuse a dance (and of course there may be genuine reasons to do so) - the way to stop offence - is just seek out that person later and ask her/him to dance - it's no big deal and the dance only lasts a couple of minutes
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Age is a question of mind over matter, if you don't mind, it doesn't matter
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Mickey Mouse's girlfriend, Minnie, made her film debut, along with Mickey, in "Steamboat Willie" on November 18, 1928.
That date is recognized as her official birthday.
You've got to be a brave soul to name and shame some people, that's for sure.Originally Posted by Minnie M
AbsolutelyOriginally Posted by Minnie M
I got asked to dance (!) on Sat at Woking, but I'd already promised the next dance to another lady. So I danced with her, then sought out the first one and asked her - we had a great dance and (I think) she appreciated it. Mr Virtuous, that's me.
Of course, the trouble is, if you don't go and find that person immediately, you're likely to forget, but the other person may not. So, and this applies to followers and leaders, if you put someone off and say "later?", please make sure you actively seek out that person later to dance with.
Honestly Mary do you really think I could stay angry for long? Life is too short to be holding grudges and over dancing as well.Originally Posted by Mary
The scrap took place in private
Is there a video?? (And if so, will it ever be delivered?? )Originally Posted by Msfab
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