Actually when I refer to 'leadable', I am in fact referring to moves that can be lead by the man and followed by the woman. In non-technical speak, I would expect that if a move is led well, the woman will be able to execute it because she will feel that that is what her partner wants her to do. It should not feel like she is being forced to do it whether she wants to or not, by the sheer superior strength of her partner! A good example is the previously-described First Move Jump where the man gives no prior warning but simply lifts the woman up off the floor. [Of course the woman can foil that with a well-aimed kick in the b***s whilst being thus lifted, but I believe most of us ladies are too well-mannered for such spoiler tactics ] So the man can be described as "leading" the move because he causes the woman to be lifted off the floor, but I cannot see how the woman can be said to have "followed" his lead - she had no choice!Originally Posted by El Salsero Gringo
For those who still insist that "following" a lead merely involves executing the move intended by the man/leader, and that knowledge and choice has nothing to do with it, then the concept of being a 'good follower' becomes meaningless. If "following" means just doing what the man is forcing you to do, that requires no ability whatsoever. Does that mean all the years I spent learning and practising the techniques of lead-&-follow were pointless? I don't think so .
Following (no pun intended ) on from my definition of 'leadable' then, I cannot think of any aerials that can be led-and-followed without signals, verbals or pre-arranged entry. That aside, I cannot imagine why any man would want to force an aerial move on an unsuspecting woman - it is b****y hard work! I know that if David tried to do an aerial move with me and I failed to follow properly, I would feel (and look) like a sack of potatoes!
LilyB
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