not good enough
too fat
too skinny
too tall
too short
not available (i.e. married)
got horrid teeth
not trendy enough
bald
black/white/yellow , etc.
too old
too young
just too damn sexy
intimidating
shy
ugly
got horrible hands
got horrible legs
can't/ don't like doing drops
can't dance to challenging music
can't dance in time
got a miserable face
just not likeable
too good
not in the clique
Actually I've found (after a whole 6 weeks of Ceroc) that I go through phases of using certain moves a lot. I started on the manspin, then the step across, but I do now have what can only be described as a fetish for yoyos!
I had a confidence crisis last week and didn't ask many to dance (only the ones I have previously danced with). At Stevenage tonight I'm going to have a wee bit of dutch courage, then step out of my comfort zone and ask some strangers!
As a follower (I use that term lightly) I often know what the leader is going to do if it is someone that I dance regularly with, as most men seem to have their favourite moves (comfortable moves) no matter how many they have and every now and then a surprise is thrown in to keep me on my toes.
As a leader I do find myself doing mainly the same moves as one seems to flow into another and it is quite unconscious on my part I just find myself in those positions
Ps keep asking strangers
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