The ability to spell 12 letter words.
Facial features (eyes, nose, mouth, ears - yes we can be that kinky!)
Facial expressions
Stature (size, frame, posture)
Muscle shape / tone
Qualities of skin, (fairness darness smoothness other)
His smell
His voice
The way he dancers
What he says about his mUm
Other, please comment
is it his sense of humour, his looks or charm?
Or does he just have to be just a damm good "dancer!"
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The ability to spell 12 letter words.
i can double that - disestablishmentarianism - 24 hah beat that then!
Can we have place names?Originally Posted by Dreadful Scathe
Llanfairpwyllgwyngillgogerychwrndrobwillantisiligo gogoch.
Can't be bothered counting the letters though!!
I've gone for "Other" cos its got to be a bit of all the above plus that extra charisma that just pulls you in.
Only thing I ain't seen my man do yet is dance - but going on past partners that's maybe a blessing (tee hee) but I live in hope of getting him along to ceroc one day....
NoOriginally Posted by TheTramp
I'm confused, are the men still on the edge of the floor
If so, I notice stature first, muscles, dark eyes and a lovely open faced smile! (and if he's in a suit.....well )
But that all can change as soon as I get them on the dance floor, then, I'm afraid, as conceited as it might sound, its all about how they make 'me' feel for the next 3-4 minutes! and that's down to 'eye contact', confidence, smile, how they hold me, how they smell, if they entertain me and if they can make me feel all floaty and feminine and as though i'm the only woman in the room they want to be dancing with at that moment.....I'm I'm.....ooooooooooh someone wake me up!!
(p.s. as sparkles, Sal, Foxylady and I all discussed in the car on Saturday night... nice teeth are always a bonus )
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I could tell you what I think of this digression but it would be floccinaucinihilipilification...Originally Posted by Dreadful Scathe
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Really? I'll have to remember that.Originally Posted by Lory
Doesn't money come into it??? In the real world that is?? [We do, of course, generally make assumptions, consious or not, about people's background based on their appearance alone!]
... Everyone equally attracted to someone looking like a pauper, than to someone looking "a million dollars"??
Hair, hair, thank god she didn't mention hair. These old bones still in with a shout then ...Originally Posted by Lory
I'd ask you what it meant - but old smarty pants would knowOriginally Posted by Dreadful Scathe
You forgot antidisestablishmentarianism, tsk .
Ohh yes definitely all of that .....playful...I like playful too.Originally Posted by Lory
Hair is strangely not necessary
Tight fitting lycra clothing is a plus, but Tuxedo even better.
no mention of kilts ?Originally Posted by Zebra Woman
I was saying out loud (yes and looking peculiar) Were is smell, cuz before evenreading the list that had to be a major factor!!!
I'd tell you, but then I'd lose my edge over the others:
Originally Posted by Magic Hans
No way, but then it doesn't take a million dollars to look good. Shallow & superficial creature that I am I do like a bloke to dress nicely, but this only requires a well-chosen, washed & ironed (black, lycra) t-shirt and some nice jeans.
Know what you mean about the suit, Lory. Though the only time I danced with a bloke in a suit I didn't like it.
Hair, definitely not necessary.
Intelligence, psychological depth, definitely is. Men who are dim are a turn-off.
defintely a man who dances with you as if you are the only one in the room. doesn't reallly matter how he looks as long as we can have great fun dancing
Actually, isn't it simply someone who makes you feel happy, good about yourself, attractive and confident?Originally Posted by Rose
And, isn't it the same for what makes a woman irresistable?
A nice smile is great!Originally Posted by Lory
...doesn't even have to be a suit, but a white shirt... ...mmm...Originally Posted by Lory
...mmmm...Originally Posted by Lory
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