Oh yes, I recognize those signs.. :sorry
Typically, for some reason, I will keep changing my mind at the last minute, and really confusing my partner in the process.
I reckon it comes from your mind / body going into automatic pilot, a bit like when you are driving on a familiar road, and suddenly you have to do a different move, but without any foresight / preparation and of course leading...
At this stage (after apologizing to my partner ), I tend to go to the bar for a can of Red Bull and then outside for a breath of fresh air...
Unfortunately, leading involves a lot of thinking ahead to the next move and sometimes, we just do not manage it...
Cheers,
Franck.
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