If I find myself arguing with a rock, I cannot blame the rock.Originally Posted by ChrisA
In my book if someone deliberately passes their local venue to go to another because it is occupied by a better class of dancer, that is an elitist - with no hint of condemnation - action. Anybody is free to make that choice. I have done it.
It is very rare for a know- nothing beginner to go anywhere but their nearest known venue, or one frequented by a friend.
There may be just as many, or even a few more, beginners at the "elite" venue, but the ratio gods to "uninspiring" is far higher. Once again you are making a totally fraudulent argument.
which should be the newcomer reception everywhere.I first went to Hipsters when I found Nigel's class really difficult, and if I absorbed 5% of what Amir taught I came away feeling a real sense of achievement. No one made me feel unwelcome at any time, although when I crashed obliviously through the breaks I got some funny looks.
Once again you misrepresent my posting. Those beginners were all ladies. Those ladies were looking at three ladies who had done it before that were standing there "gagging for it", but unasked, with all the available men, except me, obviously preferring to be sitting down chatting. I, of course, did not wait to be asked.The only difference between me and the beginners that you were referring to is that I didn't sit on the sidelines - I got off my backside and got stuck in.
Now I am getting a lecture on "snide" from someone who calls other dancers "uninspiring". I bow to your expertise. (I can do snide )Making snide comments like this is approaching my definition of 'nasty'. I note that you resorted to a snide remark rather than actually answering the question.
I know it. That is why I try to persuade not to grip, yank or fail to follow. I try to help them be less boring. If they are not interested in getting better I do not ask them.Can you not countenance the possibility that people less altruistic than yourself could get bored dancing exclusively with people that grip, yank, bounce, treat the music like a metronome, fail to follow (or lead, obviously), and aren't interested in that appallingly elitist pursuit, getting better at their dancing?
Nothing at all, people should, and will do this. I have never said that they should not.What is so awful about the possibility of going somewhere else, discovering lots of cool new things, a fresh inspiration and enthusiasm,
they are not quite so good at coming back though ... Why should they? The scene is better where they are. There is no civil obligation to be altruistic, or to do anything but enjoy yourself to the max.and then coming back reinvigorated and being much more of a pleasure to dance with than one was before?
The point I am making is that this perfectly natural and acceptable behaviour has the effect of concentrating talent, which drives the standards at the top to ever higher levels, but may be depriving the roots.
No. More misrepresentation.So not only have these people spent huge amounts of time, money and effort getting to where they are, and retain a care for those coming up behind, but you expect them to seek you out as well?
A few lines ago you had the elite returing to their roots bearing their bounty.That's not reasonable in the world I inhabit - if I want help from the elite, and they're prepared to give it, I go to them; I don't expect them to hang out where I am.[/
I have never said different.A fact of life is that people have a better time if they go out and get what they want rather than hoping it will come to them.
Those that do not recognise it will be amongst the first-timers.Modern Jive is no exception. Those who fail to recognise this and act on it will always be amongst the wallflowers, whinging about how no one ever asks them to dance and how elitist and cliquey it all is.
With me they get pushed in. Some of them appear to have a better time.Sad really, they'd have such a better time if they just dived in.
For the confused: I want as many people as possible to share our joy. I believe that the Ceroc Model, where people go on workshops and breaks to improve, yet, hopefully, still dance at their local venues is the one that will see MJ continue to prosper and grow. Hopefully our teachers will also seek out the tuition of the best and bring it back to our local venues.
Super-venues will arise naturally, and will bring some obvious immediate benefits to the scene, but I believe that any trend in this direction will, in the long run, damage the future of the dance as a whole. Mummy tree grows and deprives her babies of water and sunlight.
I think that ballroom went through this process, and possibly line-dance has, a boom, and then decline, scenario.
I not responding to any more of ChrisA's posts. If anybody wants to believe his versions of my opinions, rather than what I have written, so be it. If I argue with a rock, I cannot blame the rock.
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