[QUOTE=jivecat]Yes, it's a horrible feeling. Hope you are feeling better.
I have had several experiences recently of being turned down for a dance that have upset me to such a degree that I don't really want to dance any more. I know it's out of proportion but it just seems to have caught me on the raw. I'm going dancing tonight for the first time in nearly 2 weeks, and I'm actually scared. I just feel that all my confidence has evaporated, and I know that's a really bad attitude to take along to Ceroc........
Usually I accept that, for ladies at any rate, a fair amount of being proactive is necessary to get the dances they want, when they want them and I am normally happy to do whatever it takes. And I'm happy to dance with strangers. But at the moment, I'm not coping well with knockbacks.
Know exactly what you are saying!
Don't know where you dance Jivecat but if we ever meet, I'll dance with ya! Used to be a taxi dancer so have a very rough idea of how to lead even if only a limited range of mainly beginner moves ! But you know what? I'd be delighted and I'd smile and make eye contact and thoroughly enjoy it! Wouldn't that be great??
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