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    Unhappy I Desperately need advice

    I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.

    I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up.
    She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them".
    I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi?
    I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

    Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep downI just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her.
    I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a veiw of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

    So what should I do? Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Halfords and try to repair it myself?

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    One of those LOL moments again.

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    Try to repair it yourself I would mate!! I've got a friend who does that sort of thing. I could put you in touch with him if you like.....

    Trampy

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheTramp
    Try to repair it yourself I would mate!! I've got a friend who does that sort of thing. I could put you in touch with him if you like.....

    Trampy
    Get a few quotes first - you know what these body shop types are like.....much sucking of the lips and shakin of the heads.....

    What car is it anyway.....?

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by StevanHogg
    I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.


    I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a veiw of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

    So what should I do? Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Halfords and try to repair it myself?

    Have you considered offering as part exchange for a newer model

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by StevanHogg
    So what should I do? Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Halfords and try to repair it myself?
    Depends how old she is mate....If she's geting on a bit I would do it myself
    but if she's a reasonably new model, better getting the experts in.

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by StevanHogg
    So what should I do? Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Halfords and try to repair it myself?
    I'd definitly try and avoid knocking her about yourself, that could lead to all sorts of problems but maybe if she had a little accident you could claim on the insurance?
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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by StevanHogg
    I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.

    I've So what should I do? Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Halfords and try to repair it myself?
    I think she should have some cosmetic surgery "down below" to restore her former to her youthful glory http://www.cerocscotland.com/forum/s...8456#post88456

    Dont trust the guys in Halfords you might never see her againe

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Gordon J Pownall
    Get a few quotes first - you know what these body shop types are like.....much sucking of the lips and shakin of the heads.....
    Wouldn't the world be a better place, if it was the other way round?

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by under par
    Have you considered offering as part exchange for a newer model
    Just cuz its a lttle bit rusty around the edges does not mean than you have to trade it in for a newer model, where do you men get your ideas from!

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by drathzel
    Just cuz its a lttle bit rusty around the edges does not mean than you have to trade it in for a newer model, where do you men get your ideas from!
    Well the rust is just an excuse - the truth is we just get bored with them after a while, and the bodywork on newer models always looks really fresh and tempting.

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Graham
    .....the bodywork on newer models always looks really fresh and tempting.
    Never judge a book by its cover

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by philsmove
    Never judge a book by its cover
    Are you saying my AA Road Atlas may not be all it's cracked up to be?


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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Graham
    Well the rust is just an excuse - the truth is we just get bored with them after a while, and the bodywork on newer models always looks really fresh and tempting.
    Ah but the newer models aren't always as reliable AND they will end up like the older model eventually (especially when you dont look after it!)

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Gojive
    Are you saying my AA Road Atlas may not be all it's cracked up to be?

    exactly... get yourself and RAC road map if you want a good'un

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by philsmove
    Never judge a book by its cover
    Exactly, you should always test the handling and ride quality before committing to anything.

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by ToeTrampler
    Exactly, you should always test the handling and ride quality before committing to anything.
    love the new avatar!! Am i judging you by your cover?

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by drathzel
    love the new avatar!! Am i judging you by your cover?
    No, you're judging me by my representation of a user in a
    shared virtual reality - so that's alright then

    p.s love your avatar to

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    Re: I Desperately need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by ToeTrampler
    No, you're judging me by my representation of a user in a
    shared virtual reality - so that's alright then

    p.s love your avatar to
    We as long as i haven't offended or made you feel uncomfortable!

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