All this discussion on Lead & Follow is great apart from one minor point - it doesn't get taught to the vast majority of dancers. The fact that there are so many ladies who can follow well is a minor miracle.
I usually haven't got a clue whether the lady is a beginner or an 'advanced' dancer. I couldn't stick to beginner moves anyway - I've forgotten what they are. I just lead whatever she seems happy following. More accurately I try not to repeat anything she seemed uncomfortable with
It doesn't matter if she doesn't know the move. I usually don't know what move I'm doing, so she has go no chance. If she follows her hand, she can do 50% of what I lead. If she matches the pressure in the connection, she can do the other 35%. (It is coming up to the summer sales, so I've taken 15% off to make the ladies feel happier.)
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