Hmm... funnily enough someone I was dancing with the other night got an 'innapropriate handful' (work it out). I can't remember what the move was though. It didn't bother me at all, because it was an obvious accident, fleeting, and we just carried on dancing...so I wasn't embarrassed..dunno about him though!Originally posted by Gus
SO ..the question is ...ladies ...do you even notice such contact and if so what can guys, or ladies, do to mitigate the embaressment factor?
There is one move, the name of which I can't remember..it's a first move variation where the man spins you round with his hand on your waist once or twice in the middle of the move before finishing it normally. Sometimes men's hands come up higher than strictly necessary (!). Again, it's not a big problem if it happens by accident. I have been in a position when it's clearly not been an accident, and my response was to grab hold of his hand and move it firmly downwards to my waistline.
I think what all that means is that I don't regard the contact as innapropriate unless it's deliberate. In which case I'd either say something or do something that made it clear that I wasn't having it.
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