The point is, since you're not inside their head, you have no idea whether it is what they're thinking.Originally posted by Lynn
If someone did this with me I probably would think they didn’t think much of my dancing.
Most of the time, people are not thinking what we think they're thinking
Probably all of us that are enthusiastic about dancing care about what others think of our dancing - and so we should.
But if we think we're not good enough, the answer is to get better and better, not to worry about whether people think we're crap. Cos if they do think we're crap and they're right, we can cure it by improving, and if they're wrong, they're muppets and have their own issues.
For myself, I feel very differently about the whole hotshot issue these days - I've got to know the people I thought were hotshots, and I was wrong in every case.
Best just to concentrate on improving, not agonising about what people are (probably not) thinking.
Chris
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