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    Originally posted by Simon r
    I was there on wednesday i was practicing but she only has to ask I know of three or four others that were there. why dont ladies come and ask anymore
    who they scared of I always get your to good to ask but thats crap we all want to dance with new people
    I thought that was the idea of social dancing
    Thats the thing she doesn't ask (or only very rarely, she has been dancing 4 or 5 yrs)

    Those who go to Windsor would know her

    I think her comment was more post christmas blues she is a lovely girl but wasn't interested in me when I was single

    ps whats wrong with going to ceroc looking for love ?

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    Originally posted by stewart38
    ps whats wrong with going to ceroc looking for love ?
    Absolutely nothing wrong with it, as long as its not the only reason for going,one might feel disappointed, rejected,etc.
    as someone said in an earlier thread that should it come unexpectedly it would be nice.
    It is also nice to meet peoplewithout the pressure of trying to find romance.

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    i'll be there this wednesday straight off the m4 at slough windsor head for windsor come off the first slip road marked windsor town centre the leisure centre is on the left on this road YOU CAN NOT MISS IT.....
    And please just ask look forward to seeing you there simon

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    Originally posted by stewart38
    interested in me when I was single
    Ahh, the good old days, before you cloned yourself!!

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    Originally posted by Ceroc Jock
    Ahh, the good old days, before you cloned yourself!!

    Franck change Stewart38 nickname to 'Dolly' right away

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    Originally posted by Simon r
    i'll be there this wednesday straight off the m4 at slough windsor head for windsor come off the first slip road marked windsor town centre the leisure centre is on the left on this road YOU CAN NOT MISS IT.....
    And please just ask look forward to seeing you there simon
    Dolly doesn't want to meet Simon R but I'll mention you to my 'friend' perhaps you dance with her anyway ?

    She has got 'desperately single' stamped on her forehead

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    Hey i am not after a date just replying to a thread

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    To some people...

    ... it's all inextricably (note that one DS!!) linked...

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    Originally posted by stewart38


    She has got 'desperately single' stamped on her forehead
    I reckon this is usually half the problem when looking for 'lurve'.

    I had just got out of a sticky relationship (well, divorce actually), and had just come to terms with the prospect of being single for the rest of my life. I was quite happy making the most of the good bits of being single and I was having a ball, when Tony suddenly turned up - doh! I'm sure the only reason we got together is because he was the only one who laughed at my jokes!!

    The bottome line (IMO) is if you look like you're having fun then you will be dancing lots, whether it's you or other people who do the asking. You will 'draw' people to you. If you're miserable or hung up, then you will repel people, and it becomes harder to ask people to dance. Simple - do not look for romance, look for fun.

    Well, that's my theory anyway.

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    Last edited by Mary; 12th-January-2004 at 05:01 PM.

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    Originally posted by Mary

    The bottome line (IMO) is if you look like you're having fun then you will be dancing lots, whether it's you or other people who do the asking. You will 'draw' people to you. If you're miserable or hung up, then you will repel people, and it becomes harder to ask people to dance. Simple - do not look for romance, look for fun.

    Well, that's my theory anyway.

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    I've told her wearing a wedding dress is not always best

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    Re: Re: Re: Re: Where are all the good men ?

    Originally posted by fruitcake
    and men can be shy too, of any age.

    Fruitcake

    Yes we can.................. nice to know I'd be considered as an 'old man' in some clubs ..............but as we've all said the greta thing about Ceroc is that we enjoy dancing with people of all ages.

    If folk are looking for romance are they coming to the right place ?

    But if she wwas in Aberdeen I'd still ask her to dance ( as would most of the other men there)

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    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Where are all the good men ?

    Originally posted by Bill


    But if she wwas in Aberdeen I'd still ask her to dance ( as would most of the other men there)
    Does this mean that Aberdonian men are less shy than other men. Mmmm. Can't wait til Feb.


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    Originally posted by Mary

    The bottome line (IMO) is if you look like you're having fun then you will be dancing lots, whether it's you or other people who do the asking. You will 'draw' people to you. If you're miserable or hung up, then you will repel people, and it becomes harder to ask people to dance. Simple - do not look for romance, look for fun.

    Well, that's my theory anyway.

    M
    Great theory Mary,
    I am single, and if LURVE popped up I would be thrilled,but aint lookin for it just now. I do think non-verbal communication or body language says an awful lot about you,so stewarts friend probably needs to 'pretend' she is having a great time and that she wants to dance with everybody,look happy, smile at people,not sit at a table but stand without a drink,(body language says those things are barriers-defences up!).
    Though it is difficult if you are single and all your friends are married and in relationships. I am lucky to have friends who will go out with me including the ones in relationships, and because I'm not looking for romance(until Brad splits with Jennifer anyway) I don't feel under pressure to meet someone.
    Therefore I have more fun, give out more positive signals.
    If all else fails,......get a cat!
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    Originally posted by stewart38
    I've told her wearing a wedding dress is not always best
    thats WAY funnier than any of the jokes you post on the jokes thread

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    Originally posted by fruitcake
    Great theory Mary,

    I'm not looking for romance(until Brad splits with Jennifer anyway) I don't feel under pressure to meet someone.

    If all else fails,......get a cat!
    Fruity
    I wouldn't bother with Brad - I hear he's a rotten kisser!!!

    Cat's can be fickle too.

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    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Where are all the good men ?

    Originally posted by Mary
    Does this mean that Aberdonian men are less shy than other men. Mmmm. Can't wait til Feb.


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    Actually we are all very very shy but try to be friendly to visitors

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    Originally posted by Mary

    The bottome line (IMO) is if you look like you're having fun then you will be dancing lots, whether it's you or other people who do the asking. You will 'draw' people to you. If you're miserable or hung up, then you will repel people, and it becomes harder to ask people to dance. Simple - do not look for romance, look for fun.


    M

    Agree here as well Mary and said exactly this on another thread. If you look aorund for someone to dance with and a woman is sitting and looks miserable or not very happy I'd assume she didn't want to dance and look for someone who looked as if they were keen to dance and having fun.

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    Originally posted by fruitcake
    Great theory Mary,
    I am single, and if LURVE popped up I would be thrilled,but aint lookin for it just now. I do think non-verbal communication or body language says an awful lot about you,so stewarts friend probably needs to 'pretend' she is having a great time and that she wants to dance with everybody,look happy, smile at people,not sit at a table but stand without a drink,(body language says those things are barriers-defences up!).
    Though it is difficult if you are single and all your friends are married and in relationships. I am lucky to have friends who will go out with me including the ones in relationships, and because I'm not looking for romance(until Brad splits with Jennifer anyway) I don't feel under pressure to meet someone.
    Therefore I have more fun, give out more positive signals.
    If all else fails,......get a cat!
    Fruity
    I think this is true for men and women

    Could start another thread on this

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    Originally posted by Bill
    Agree here as well Mary and said exactly this on another thread. If you look aorund for someone to dance with and a woman is sitting and looks miserable or not very happy I'd assume she didn't want to dance and look for someone who looked as if they were keen to dance and having fun.
    That is generally true, but, perverse as ever, I have been known to look for the most miserable looking woman in the room and try and make her smile. A few of my best moments have been when the lady was miserable for a good reason, and yet I have made her laugh. To be fair, some remain just as miserable.

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