Strong or Light ??

[Minnie M]

From the amount of PM's I have received this person is well known by the followers and they are making their own stands by keeping well clear of him

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It does make me wonder why they are doing their complaining to you and not directly to him. If every follower who had a problem either said no to him, and why, or explicitly stated that they didn't want to be hurt, then there might be some chance of sorting the situation out.

The young lady is the one who needs to be the confrontational character. Unless this man hears complaints directly from his followers he is unlikely to believe that he has a problem, anyway.

Strong Leads
Some men do have strong leads, I noticed that the mood of the lead can also determine the strength of their lead (stronger when stressed or nervous), however, if this lead is well know and if it is causing discomfort to the follower, or 'possible' discomfort - TELL HIM ! Much better then telling others and then it appearing here. I am sure the man concerned must know who we are talking about and he must be feeling very embarassed and possible hurt by it all.


Light Leads
This could be the reverse, when the lead is very light, the follower often compensates and clings on (aka stirring thick custard) - possible causing injury to both parties.

Whoops, can some nice kind Mod please change my option to make sense (I prefer my lead to tell me if my lead is too strong or light) should be if my FOLLOW ........... thanks xx