I presume you're talking about hand-bounce, but I have no idea what letters the asterisks in the title are replacing.
As for dealing with it - you could just try relaxing your arm completely. It's hard for your partner to bounce her hand up and down if she's supporting much of your arm weight (arms can be heavy), but on the flip-side, it doesn't require any real effort or 'wrestling' from your side.
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