After a discussion on the journey home from dancing regarding what is worse being refused or having a dance with someone who clearly does not want to dance with you and is just going through the motions, I thought I'd bring the dicussion to the forum.

I actually find it most unpleasant dancing with someone who you can just tell just wants the record to end so they can dance with someone of their choice; they have already made a judgement about you and are not going to give it a go.

So do men and women have the same experience or is this something more gender specific? I do know that if you make judgements on someone before you give the dance a try, you can miss on some fantastic dancing.

So come on please tell me how you feel about this.