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Wow thanks WB, I needed that mental image
I asked a guy I know recently if he'd ever thought about partner dancing and his immediate response was "No Way, I bet it just attracts a load of weirdo's and saddo's"
Well, I had to admit, on first glance, it might appear that way
Then we got into a deeper discussion and 'the real' reason came out. Basically, he was afraid of making a prat out of himself.
He did make a few good points though.
Having never been before, his perception of why women are more attracted to it than men are as follows...
There would be an expectancy on the man to be able to pick it up and if he didn't, he'd look like an idiot! But, he feels that no one (men or women) would have any expectancy of a woman and therefore she's got nothing to loose.
He reckons, women don't mind making mistakes but men can't bare getting stuff wrong 'especially' if its in front of people they don't know
Women actually 'like' being helped, whereas, men hate it!
Men don't like being pressured and the thought of 'having' to dance with anyone who asks, is a turn off
He's definitely convinced its a just a good disguise for 'pickup joint' and men hate feeling like predators!
I did follow up by asking him what might change his mind in the future and he said, if he was offered a few private lessons in total secret, so he at least knew the beginners moves before he turned up on the first night and that he knew of some gorgeous ladies, who'd beg him to escort them on their first night.. he'd be tempted
So maybe there's your answer, offer cheap private (secret) lessons
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