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Thread: Gender Balancing Search Thread- Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball; 2 Jan 2010

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    Gender Balancing Search Thread- Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball; 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by Northants Girly View Post
    My friends and I are looking for 3 men to book with for Utopia H&H on the 2nd Jan. If any of you guys can help please get in touch

    I've left a message on the Utopia noticeboard too.

    (thought David/Lory made a thread for this sort of thing but couldn't find it)
    Here you go...

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    This is the Gender Balancing Search thread to help you find someone to book with for the Utopia Heaven & Hell Ball (in Twickenham on 2nd January 2010).

    Men can help women who would otherwise be stuck on the waiting list and need to find someone to book with.

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    How it works:
    1. Vote on the poll to indicate who you want to share with
    2. If you want, you can also post on the thread
    3. Contact people you're interested in (via PM)
    4. Once you've found someone to share with, please use the "Withdraw Vote" option and change your vote to the "All Sorted Now" option, to make it easier for others
    5. If you're looking for more than one person, you can change your vote as you fill places. You can also vote more than once if you're looking for a mix of people.


    Note that this thread may be moderated more heavily than usual to remove off-topic posts and make it easier to use.

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    This thread is provided to help forum members, but if you do agree an arrangement with someone as a result of finding them on here, no responsibility is accepted if things go wrong, for whatever reason.
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    Last edited by DavidY; 11th-November-2009 at 08:36 PM.
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    Re: Gender Balancing Search Thread- Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball; 2 Jan 2010

    Right so what is the motivation for a MAN (we are Gods), to book with random females.

    Do the girly trouts pay for the men?

    Do the girly trouts put out for the men?

    Men! Men !! Men !!! Unite with each other and make the evil women, (soft and fluffy), pay some penance for the priviledge of booking with us lovely men.

    Can we book hookers on this thread? If so can I book a fiercesome Eastern European who can run a hoover round me flat and leave a quiche in the oven afore she bangs the sh1t out of me?

    This thread is marvellous. There's more to DavidY than meets the eye.

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    Last edited by dave the scaffolder; 11th-November-2009 at 10:08 PM.

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    Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball 2 Jan 2010

    I'm not sure if this approach is gonna work DavidY - not many folk have voted have they?

    Anyway - I needed 3 men - and I've found one so just need 2 more!

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    Re: Gender Balancing Search Thread- Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball; 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by DTS
    Can we book hookers on this thread? If so can I book a fiercesome Eastern European who can run a hoover round me flat and leave a quiche in the oven afore she bangs the sh1t out of me?



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    Re: Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by Northants Girly View Post
    I'm not sure if this approach is gonna work DavidY - not many folk have voted have they?
    Indeed.
    It may be that there aren't many other people looking for someone to book with at this event, though?
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    Re: Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball 2 Jan 2010

    Where's that hooker we ordered?

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    Re: Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by Northants Girly View Post
    I'm not sure if this approach is gonna work DavidY - not many folk have voted have they?

    Anyway - I needed 3 men - and I've found one so just need 2 more!
    I agree the poll doesn't seem particularly popular but if there are any ladies looking to book with a man, this thread is useful to highlight the fact. I think just a post (as NG has shown above) is just as effective so people can contact each other, rather than voting in the poll.

    Similarly, if people do have spare tickets, they'll know who to contact. I had a spare female ticket for Skegness earlier this year and started a thread to see if anyone wanted it but it was immediately taken off as 'advertising' (although I have seen identical threads for other events that seem to be allowed?). I put an advert on the 'for sale' section but no one looked at it and I ended up losing all the money. A thread like this would have been very useful.

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    Re: Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by Brighton Belle View Post
    Similarly, if people do have spare tickets, they'll know who to contact. I had a spare female ticket for Skegness earlier this year and started a thread to see if anyone wanted it but it was immediately taken off as 'advertising' (although I have seen identical threads for other events that seem to be allowed?). I put an advert on the 'for sale' section but no one looked at it and I ended up losing all the money. A thread like this would have been very useful.

    Just head the thread 'any help for my dying grandmother' ?

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    ..........ps she had a spare skegness ticket etc

    On a serious point I dont know why there appears to be always a serious gender balance problem at Utopia events

    Do men not like slowing down and chilling out or do they prefer to bounce and get it over with quickly ?

    I have always like the Utopia events its just timing and distance that has always got me

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    Re: Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by stewart38 View Post
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    On a serious point I dont know why there appears to be always a serious gender balance problem at Utopia events...
    Is there in general aren't they fairly closely balanced.

    (or are you referring to booking ?).

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    Re: Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by frodo View Post
    Is there in general aren't they fairly closely balanced.

    (or are you referring to booking ?).
    The ones I've been to have always been well balanced which is why I keep going back (or trying to)

    Still looking for 2 more men btw . . . .

    Did you know that in the cuttlefish world there are 4 males to every 1 female? If only it was more like that in the dance world

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    Re: Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by Northants Girly View Post
    Did you know that in the cuttlefish world there are 4 males to every 1 female? If only it was more like that in the dance world
    Eew, did you see how they had sex though and don't forget, some of them were sneaky cross dressers
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    Re: Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by Lory View Post
    Eew, did you see how they had sex though and don't forget, some of them were sneaky cross dressers
    So you're saying it is the same as the dance world?

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    Re: Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by Gav View Post
    So you're saying it is the same as the dance world?
    You tell me, Gav
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    Re: Gender Balancing Search Thread- Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball; 2 Jan 2010

    Is this one at Twickenham?

    I've never been there.

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    Re: Gender Balancing Search Thread- Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball; 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by Astro View Post
    Is this one at Twickenham?
    Yes

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    Re: Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by frodo View Post
    Is there in general aren't they fairly closely balanced.

    (or are you referring to booking ?).
    Yes I was referring to the bookings

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    Re: Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball 2 Jan 2010

    Still looking for 2 more men

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    Re: Gender Balancing Search Thread- Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball; 2 Jan 2010

    Dare I ask what the Utopia events are like now?
    I went to one and was not impressed.
    Yes the music was different/unusual but it wasn't the bluesy event it was sold to me as.

    I was very disappointed and never went back.

    Personally I need a few tunes that I know the tune of to refresh my musicality muscle.


    So comments please - what is it like now?

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    Re: Gender Balancing Search Thread- Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball; 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by Trousers View Post
    Dare I ask what the Utopia events are like now?
    I went to one and was not impressed.
    Yes the music was different/unusual but it wasn't the bluesy event it was sold to me as.

    I was very disappointed and never went back.

    Personally I need a few tunes that I know the tune of to refresh my musicality muscle.


    So comments please - what is it like now?
    I still enjoy the Twickenham events. There are blues tracks played of course, but it isn't a blues event IMO. I find it to be more of a 'feel good music' event, ranging from soul, funk, R&B with the odd latin, blues, tangoesque track. I tend to find I do a lot more WCS there than I do at other dance events (excepting WCS ones of course!). It's quite difficult for me to describe really, it's just 'Utopia' music. Look at it this way, you'll have a very grateful woman if you book and it allows a female to book, even if you don't enjoy the music. It's worth a try if you have nothing else planned.

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    Re: Gender Balancing Search Thread- Utopia Heaven and Hell Ball; 2 Jan 2010

    Quote Originally Posted by Trousers View Post
    Dare I ask what the Utopia events are like now?
    I went to one and was not impressed.
    Yes the music was different/unusual but it wasn't the bluesy event it was sold to me as.

    I was very disappointed and never went back.

    Personally I need a few tunes that I know the tune of to refresh my musicality muscle.


    So comments please - what is it like now?
    Trousers, II really enjoy Utopia events but I agree with Cruella its definitely not pure blues night but it’s a long way from normal ceroc main room dance music as well there is a good range of music from funky to blues with a bit of Latin in between. Definitely music you can play around with. I have had one or two Utopia that I did not really enjoy so maybe you were unlucky

    The last Heaven and Hell was one of my favourite nights of the year and can remember travelling back in the car with Sunnybunny and KPS, with KPS and myself keep saying ‘what a night’ several times. I am so looking forward to the next one

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