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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by martingold View Post
    did you mean singles or signals?????
    signals
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    as for the bad name dont worry mate you already have one

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by martingold View Post

    as for the bad name dont worry mate you already have one


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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by kps View Post
    Very soon Im going to have a bad name on here.

    But what I did pick up from Southport is I'm completely
    oblivious to any singles the ladies give me.
    When U say singles, are U telling us the ladies would give U one??

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by Villemo View Post
    Not intended as a stab on anybody, but everyone I' sure has felt like they're not part of the group at one time or another. No reason to feel like a victim. We all have issues, small or large. Don't take it personal if someone doesn't wan't to dance, they might have their reasons. Getting up close and personal might be an expression of the music, not a signal that they fancy you, and that goes for both girls and guys. Enjoy the dance, and if you want to get to know the person better, talk to them after the dance, ask them for a drink etc. Most of us dance because it social, and we make great friends.
    Best of luck!

    I remeber my 2nd Southport, I had some wonderfull dances with 2 differnent guy's all over the weekend, I thought at least one of them would ask for my phone number, when they didn't I was gutted, and couldn't understand why? Talking to a more expernced dancer I desoverd I had had wonderfull conected dances, but they wern't interested in anything else, I had read it wrong

    I gave up long ago and have settled for the single celibate life.

    I can't help feeling there's a good woman going to waste, but at least i'm not disserpointed or hurt.

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by CJ View Post
    When U say singles, are U telling us the ladies would give U one??
    depends on how desperate they are.

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Would not even thing about dating a non dancer.

    DTS XXX XXX

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by dave the scaffolder View Post
    Would not even thing about dating a non dancer.
    Since when did men actually think (or is that 'thing'?) at any point in the 'dating' process?

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    Should be think, cheers mate.

    Couple of incidents that happened to me a few years ago. One lady asked me out but I politley refused because she had 2 horses. I had a girl I lived with for 8 years until she bought horses i never saw her again, so that was the end of that. Another girl asked me out but her circumstances were not to my liking so another no.

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by dave the scaffolder View Post
    Would not even thing about dating a non dancer.

    DTS XXX XXX
    But dating dancers causes trouble.

    Found that out again last week (quite seperate from Southport).


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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by Steven666 View Post
    But dating dancers causes trouble.

    Found that out again last week (quite seperate from Southport).

    I haven't as yet, but I think I'd rather date a dancer.

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by kps View Post
    I haven't as yet, but I think I'd rather date a dancer.
    I date a non-dancer (who funnily enough I met dancing as he was there to meet girls ) and I prefer it

    I enjoy having my own hobby and don't think I'd dance the same with him there (and conversely think I'd be jealous if he was a dancer)

    I don't know how those with dancing partners cope with it to be honest

    It does mean I do have to limit how much time I go dancing but that tends to mean I prioritise "better" events

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by HelenB View Post

    I enjoy having my own hobby and don't think I'd dance the same with him there (and conversely think I'd be jealous if he was a dancer)
    Why would you be jealous?

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by kps View Post
    Why would you be jealous?
    Insecure is probably a better description (completely unfounded I would like to add)

    (and I'm talking more in a blues room sense as that where I tend to dance)

    You've also probably never seen me dance...

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by HelenB View Post
    Insecure is probably a better description (completely unfounded I would like to add)

    (and I'm talking more in a blues room sense as that where I tend to dance)

    You've also probably never seen me dance...
    No I don't think I have seen you dance. Hope I get a chance too.

    I guess I'm so laid back about thing I see dancing as just dancing even when its a bit steamy.

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by kps View Post
    No I don't think I have seen you dance. Hope I get a chance too.

    I guess I'm so laid back about thing I see dancing as just dancing even when its a bit steamy.
    Tis a thing of beauty mate, a thing of beauty, slightly scary and exciting as hell.

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by Steven666 View Post
    But dating dancers causes trouble.

    Found that out again last week (quite seperate from Southport).

    And even seperately tonight.

    *sniff*


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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by dave the scaffolder View Post
    Would not even thing about dating a non dancer.

    DTS XXX XXX

    what would be the point you wouldn't see them much

    Quote Originally Posted by Steven666 View Post
    But dating dancers causes trouble.

    Found that out again last week (quite seperate from Southport).
    I don't know whats happend, but trust me, if its the same pearson leave well alone your worth more.

    Quote Originally Posted by kps View Post
    I haven't as yet, but I think I'd rather date a dancer.
    flip me I better get in quick before KPS's finger is snaped up by the Scotish

    Quote Originally Posted by HelenB View Post

    I don't know how those with dancing partners cope with it to be honest
    I was allways told by people who have issues 'don't watch' i'v only dated one dancer and I neaver watched him, mainly cos I was to busy dancing my self.

    Quote Originally Posted by kps View Post
    Why would you be jealous?
    Watching a partner dancing and having 'that' dance makes you feel....they don't look like that when dancing with me, I don't make them feel like that, his moves are better than mine, she like dacning with him more than me....its endless..........don't worry it wont happen to us

    Quote Originally Posted by Steven666 View Post
    And even seperately tonight.

    *sniff*
    Steven *shout* come hear leave it

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by HelenB View Post
    I date a non-dancer (who funnily enough I met dancing as he was there to meet girls ) and I prefer it

    I enjoy having my own hobby and don't think I'd dance the same with him there (and conversely think I'd be jealous if he was a dancer)

    I don't know how those with dancing partners cope with it to be honest

    It does mean I do have to limit how much time I go dancing but that tends to mean I prioritise "better" events
    This is the position I've found myself in too. Beo has finally admitted that his dancing, if any at all will be very limited. I dunno, talk about getting a girl under false pretences

    However, luckily, he has no problem with my going out dancing and leaving him behind to play WoW. So I'll be off to classes, events and weekenders whenever I want

    But neither of us has ever had a problem with the other party dancing with other people luckily. Beo barely knows what jealousy is, and well, the thought of him getting too UCP with someone else just has me

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by Steven666 View Post
    But dating dancers causes trouble.

    Found that out again last week (quite seperate from Southport).


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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Yep, dating dancers if fine - it's when you're not dating them anymore that things can get a bit uncomfortable

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