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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    1st of all men wouldnt know a flirt if they were smacked in the face with it. What I tend to do is flirt and compliment everyone, male or female. If someone fancies me they have to kinda spell it out in my terms ie, any chance of you banging the sh1t out of DTS. My pick up line is exactly the same ie, any chance of me banging the sh1t out of you.

    The best bit of advice is to be nice and flirt with everything that moves and who ever fancies you will let you know. Do not try to pick up women, as the old defence barrier comes up immediatly.


    I know this is strange but if you treat women the same as your mates, they will not see you as a threat, and they will be comfortable with you and ask you out if they are interested.

    I know, I know, I know it is hard to treat women as your equal, but bite the bullet and after decades of practise it can be done.


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    One more thing! Afore all of you bra burning, lip waxing, man hating feminists start burning effigies of me, tis a humorous posts Princesses, treacles, honey pies.

    Choose your weapons!!!!!!

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    Thanks u-dancing, I found the information on SA very interesting.

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by u-dancing View Post

    The fact is women run the dating game,

    A man chases a women and then she catches him

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by Gav View Post
    Just accept that they all only want to dance and when you meet someone that wants more, they'll tell you.
    Gav, you've been with me for too long.

    Generally, I would say women like to be courted. They're not all as bold and straight talking as me. If I'd left it up to you to make a move, we'd still be at "polite dance" stage.

    Personally, I would say the MJ environment is an easy and safe place to meet potential partners. Rather than making "dates" with people, you can arrange to meet them at another dance venue, where you have friends around and the pressure isn't as intense. Then you can get to know someone before you commit yourself to actually going on an official date, so to speak.

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Interlocking the fingers when UCP dancing is, I would suggest, a sign of intentions that extend beyond the dancefloor. Stuff like eye contact, hand squeeze, etc however is all part of the dance IMO

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by robd View Post
    Interlocking the fingers when UCP dancing is, I would suggest, a sign of intentions that extend beyond the dancefloor.
    Is that the secret code then I'd just assume that was also part of the dance

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by jive-vee View Post
    I'd just assume that was also part of the dance
    You learn something everyday I've definitely had guys link fingers with me in the past...

    ...but how annoying, I can't remember who they were now
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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lory View Post
    You learn something everyday I've definitely had guys link fingers with me in the past...

    ...but how annoying, I can't remember who they were now
    Yeah me too, but I can remember who some of them are, and they often keep me for many dances on the trot and it's really quite UCP. I just assume it's just dancing still but a different kind of dance as we've danced together quite a bit now and we're both just in the zone so to speak.

    Actually I'm gonna keep thinking that it's still just a dance. I don't want to start thinking I have to modify how I dance in case it gives people the wrong idea. I'm there to dance not pick people up and I think they know that.

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    Hey it's only my POV and I am deliberately gonna do some finger linking with you two this weekend just to keep you guessing

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lory View Post
    If you can't be bothered to read the lot..read from post no.201..

    Ahh those were the good old days
    Blimey, I did give the guy a hard time
    (Not the type he was looking for though. Thankfully!)

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by u-dancing View Post
    So any of you ladies out there shed some light on this?
    Just to point out the advice you're getting here is from by and large very experienced and committed lady dancers.

    As a group it particularly suits them (and me) if such signals/cues are pretty much always assumed to be part of the dance, and a dance is always just a dance, however outrageous.


    But you shouldn't be put off by their preferences. It is worth remembering they are a relatively small group.

    Finding out how experienced and committed a dancer someone is (not the same as how good a dancer ), isn't usually difficult and provides context to help give weighting to the cues.

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    Quote Originally Posted by robd View Post
    Hey it's only my POV and I am deliberately gonna do some finger linking with you two this weekend just to keep you guessing
    I miss read that at first and thought you might be talking about another DTS special move with finger licking!! (I don't know if DTS does that, but it would surprise me)

    I might try them both out and see what happens!

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by u-dancing View Post
    So any of you ladies out there shed some light on this?
    Ooh I think you must mean me. After reading your post I feel really guilty, I have been known to occasionally flirt, I love eye contact and, dance in close but it has nothing to do with fancying someone, in fact when I dance with someone I usually have my dance goggles on. This is just the way I dance (As I’ve said before it’s not my fault it’s the music makes me behave that way) I get lost in the music and as Lory said in a previous thread it is a “3 minute passionate affair “ and when it ends it’s a quick hug and kiss on the cheek and it’s off to find the next victim, with a big smile on my face – hopefully sated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maxine View Post
    Ooh I think you must mean me. After reading your post I feel really guilty, I have been known to occasionally flirt, I love eye contact and, dance in close but it has nothing to do with fancying someone, in fact when I dance with someone I usually have my dance goggles on. This is just the way I dance (As I’ve said before it’s not my fault it’s the music makes me behave that way) I get lost in the music and as Lory said in a previous thread it is a “3 minute passionate affair “ and when it ends it’s a quick hug and kiss on the cheek and it’s off to find the next victim, with a big smile on my face – hopefully sated.

    Ahem....it's me that has the 3 minute passionate affairs. In fact my daughter keeps saying to me you go dancing so often you must be seeing another man..well actually it's a few and all in the one night ..that's dancing for you. Anyone who doesn't dance just doesn't understand that it's all good clean fun

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jay Jay View Post
    Anyone who doesn't dance just doesn't understand that it's all good clean fun
    Does it have to be clean???

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by kps View Post
    Does it have to be clean???

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by kps View Post
    Does it have to be clean???
    One should never underestimate the importance of good hygiene.

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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jay Jay View Post
    Ahem....it's me that has the 3 minute passionate affairs.
    Ahem to you misses... I said it yesterday... nerrr!
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    Re: Dancing or Dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lory View Post
    Ahem to you misses... I said it yesterday... nerrr!
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