Well Stokie the first dance I had tonight was with the lady in question.
I started by asking her not to hold my hand so tightly in order to make it easier for her. She asked "why" and I said "it will make it easier for you because you won't have to guess when I want you to relax your hold when I need to change hand grips for the next move".
I then proceeded to have a lovely dance with the lady. At the end of it she asked "why have I not mentioned it before and did it feel better for me". In reply, I asked "if felt better for her", which she replied with a big grin on her face "much better".
I then asked my mate to have a dance with her. He also said it was a very pleasant dance with her now.
So alls well that ends well and once again thanks for the advice.
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