I don't have a hit list, or a dance card, but when I go somewhere and see people that I really like dancing with or that I feel a real connection with on the dance floor, I do my best to dance with them and I am disappointed at the end of the night if I miss them. Similarly, if I see someone at the end of the night and didn't realise they were there, I rue the missed opportunity. It's like discovering that your favourite band were in town, playing a one off gig. Last night!
I think it's different for women, because they have much more competition for good dances. There aren't that many really good male leads, so it's harder for them to feel that connection. Men, on the other hand, (well, me, anyway) get a buzz either from dancing with a really good partner or a really hot girl, whether she can dance or not. Everyone knows how to grind!
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