Quote Originally Posted by emmylou25 View Post
I thought the whole point of ceroc (don't know about other MJ events as not yet made it to any of those) was to make everyone feel welcome and not refuse people a dance. That's the main reason why I've stopped going to salsa because people would look down on me if I asked for a dance because they didn't recognise me as someone they knew (ok, so I might not have been the best dancer, but I wasn't bad, was a reasonable follower and enjoyed the dancing - but as they'd never danced with me they'd never have known), whereas in ceroc I can get to dance with everyone I ask (usually).
Yes. in fact.

One of the real selling points of Modern Jive is that it is a very friendly scene.

OK, fair enough, there's nothing wrong with wanting to help re-enforce that, but I don't see it as being a major problem to be solved.