The result of this being that if the are doing it wrong and "teaching" it wrong in such a way thats going to hurt the woman physically or indeed confidence wise i will jump in and say "you ok there? can i help with anything" Most people take this opportunity to walk through it at that point i can say "actually Mr X if you tilt with this hand or pull back with that, the lady will find it easier to follow." At that point very few people will try and tell me i am wrong... altho some have tried
If the person is genuinely trying to help and i can hear this is genuine i will stay back and not interrupt. If the woman looks happy enough that the man is just trying to help them with a move the just cannot get!!
I am lucky to say i havent seen a lot of these. I see more of men trying to force the lady into moves (ie beginners and side leans
) and i have seen lots of women telling their partner off for getting it wrong. Which in my mind is the same thing!
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