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    Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Prompted by thoughts in my head on the attractive gay guys thread..but far enough away for a new thread...

    If you find someone sexually attractive, ie the chemistry thing is zinging away, at one stage in your life then, assuming they don't grow an extra head or otherwise change their appearance or personality drastically, does the forum find that it is often always attracted to them years or so later??

    *secret out* I had a bit of a wildish time in my early 20s and chaps from my past do er pop up again from time to time and I doooo find that they are still er, attractive to me and vice versa. Stopping there.

    'fess away forumites...

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Oh I do love a slapper.

    Whatever attracted you to that person in the 1st place, if still there will attract you again and again.

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Lets stick this in the world of dance.

    I have, and still do, dance with some people and come off the floor a quivering wreck.

    Not all are female I may add.

    If someone is HOT then they are HOT period.

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Quote Originally Posted by dave the scaffolder View Post
    Lets stick this in the world of dance.

    I have, and still do, dance with some people and come off the floor a quivering wreck.

    If someone is HOT then they are HOT period.

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Quote Originally Posted by Chicklet View Post
    If you find someone sexually attractive, ie the chemistry thing is zinging away, at one stage in your life then, assuming they don't grow an extra head or otherwise change their appearance or personality drastically, does the forum find that it is often always attracted to them years or so later??
    No. There are girls I really fancied in the past whom I now don't in the slightest.

    It's me that has changed, not them.
    Let your mind go and your body will follow. – Steve Martin, LA Story

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Quote Originally Posted by ducasi View Post
    No. There are girls I really fancied in the past whom I now don't in the slightest.

    It's me that has changed, not them.


    I go down this route (even if they have done the dumping)

    Sure there maybe someone you see and think god they still look hot but never go back and move on and let go with love.

    Even if the nauseous nasty evil upstarted cantankerous vile upstart dumped you, you have got over them and when you seem them say ‘your loss lesbian’

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    have to be tactful here considering my fiancee will be reading this

    My ex fiancee.. I no longer fancy. I like her as a friend but I feel nothing towards her in that other way. I have ex girlfriends I never think about and one I actively dislike. So feelings can and do change.

    that said.. I do still have a soft spot for my childhood sweetheart from when i was in primary school . i don't "fancy" her per se.. the feelings come from a time when all I wanted to do was share my sherbet dib dab with her (now now you dirty minded fiends enough of that!) and perhaps play "kiss chase"

    I feel very warmly towards her but it's a pure childlike feeling, simpler and less complicated than this love/lust nonsense

    I guess there's some people for whatever reason you'll continue to carry a torch for.. even if that is a plastic toy "jamie and the magic torch" torch

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Quote Originally Posted by Chicklet View Post
    If you find someone sexually attractive, ie the chemistry thing is zinging away, at one stage in your life then, assuming they don't grow an extra head or otherwise change their appearance or personality drastically, does the forum find that it is often always attracted to them years or so later??
    No. Everything changes, including feelings.

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    hmmmm all of the above is very interesing thank you all but I wasn't really getting at er, well rounded relationships and er, love and er, letting go of the past etc. I just meant, er, sexual chemistry. IE if you wanted to once would part of you want to again, say, 10 years later. Not "would you actually do it given current relationships/cirumstances" just COULD you do it, if free as a bird with no ties yada yada, because you were still attracted to them.

    I think Dave got it, if there's a buzz there'll always be a buzz, and this is what I have found more often than not, but then maybe I actually am a bigger slapper than I thought .....Duncan seems to lean the other way which is fair enough, what I was wondering was which view prevails.

    anyone worked out that I've been watching SATC DVDs??

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Quote Originally Posted by Chicklet View Post
    I think Dave got it, if there's a buzz there'll always be a buzz, and this is what I have found more often than not, but then maybe I actually am a bigger slapper than I thought .....Duncan seems to lean the other way which is fair enough, what I was wondering was which view prevails.

    anyone worked out that I've been watching SATC DVDs??
    The majority have said the buzz goes

    If you still lust after several ex's thats fine

    Dont suggest once a buzz always a buzz (Id have half of Southport after me )

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Quote Originally Posted by stewart38 View Post
    The majority have said the buzz goes

    If you still lust after several ex's thats fine

    Dont suggest once a buzz always a buzz (Id have half of Southport after me )
    Hello earth calling Stewart, earth calling Stewart.

    You sex God you.

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Quote Originally Posted by Chicklet View Post
    hmmmm all of the above is very interesing thank you all but I wasn't really getting at er, well rounded relationships and er, love and er, letting go of the past etc. I just meant, er, sexual chemistry. IE if you wanted to once would part of you want to again, say, 10 years later.
    What do you expect, it was guys who answered after all but some of the replies were a bit er: hmm?

    My answer is once you've climbed a hill why bother climbing it again,
    btw, Shallow is my middle name. See ya tonight.

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Quote Originally Posted by Brian Doolan View Post
    My answer is once you've climbed a hill why bother climbing it again,
    btw, Shallow is my middle name.
    Well, it would be if you insist on shagging fat birds wouldn't it...

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Sometimes yes and sometimes no. Some exes have turned into friends, and there any frisson has been turned into something else. However there was one ex whom I kept trying to turn into a friend, but who kept morphing into a lover and then back to friend again. For 10 years! Thankfully I no longer see him anymore, so I don't know how I'd feel if I saw him again (last time was about 4 or 5 years ago I think).

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Quote Originally Posted by robd View Post
    Well, it would be if you insist on shagging fat birds wouldn't it...
    The only way you'd know if I shagged fat birds is if you shagged them after me and they told you, you were crap compared to me. That's why you're telling the forum I shag fat birds, you jealous twat

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Quote Originally Posted by robd View Post
    Well, it would be if you insist on shagging fat birds wouldn't it...
    Quote Originally Posted by Brian Doolan View Post
    The only way you'd know if I shagged fat birds is if you shagged them after me and they told you, you were crap compared to me. That's why you're telling the forum I shag fat birds, you jealous twat
    For once I actually got robd;s wit and play on words, ie shallow Al.

    Now if you 2 are going to get stuck in, any chance of a car chase somewhere?

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Quote Originally Posted by Brian Doolan View Post
    The only way you'd know if I shagged fat birds is if you shagged them after me and they told you, you were crap compared to me. That's why you're telling the forum I shag fat birds, you jealous twat
    LOL, touched a nerve have we? I have no idea who you actually are beyond someone woodface made eat their words a while back....

    I just assumed with your talk of climbing a hill you meant it was a long way to get on top and that with a bird that big a nickname of 'shallow' is quite likely to fit well (or indeed not fit well to be more accurate). Clearly I credited you with too much intelligence

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    Quote Originally Posted by robd View Post
    LOL, touched a nerve have we? I have no idea who you actually are beyond someone woodface made eat their words a while back....
    To touch a nerve with BD you only have to type

    On the subject, i have fallen out of love with movie stars does that count ?

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Quote Originally Posted by dave the scaffolder View Post
    For once I actually got robd;s wit and play on words, ie shallow Al.
    shallow Al ??
    Ah, Shallow Hal, got it now, bit like "Wish You Was Here"

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    Re: Once Fancy Always Fancy? (just a little bit)

    Quote Originally Posted by Brian Doolan View Post
    shallow Al ??
    Ah, Shallow Hal, got it now, bit like "Wish You Was Here"
    See robd is not such a bast*rd after all, he is just witty and misunderstood.

    Bless him.

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