Oh I do love a slapper.
Whatever attracted you to that person in the 1st place, if still there will attract you again and again.
DTS XXX XXX
Prompted by thoughts in my head on the attractive gay guys thread..but far enough away for a new thread...
If you find someone sexually attractive, ie the chemistry thing is zinging away, at one stage in your life then, assuming they don't grow an extra head or otherwise change their appearance or personality drastically, does the forum find that it is often always attracted to them years or so later??
*secret out* I had a bit of a wildish time in my early 20s and chaps from my past do er pop up again from time to time and I doooo find that they are still er, attractive to me and vice versa. Stopping there.
'fess away forumites...
Oh I do love a slapper.
Whatever attracted you to that person in the 1st place, if still there will attract you again and again.
DTS XXX XXX
Lets stick this in the world of dance.
I have, and still do, dance with some people and come off the floor a quivering wreck.
Not all are female I may add.
If someone is HOT then they are HOT period.
DTS XXX XXX
I go down this route (even if they have done the dumping)
Sure there maybe someone you see and think god they still look hot but never go back and move on and let go with love.
Even if the nauseous nasty evil upstarted cantankerous vile upstart dumped you, you have got over them and when you seem them say ‘your loss lesbian’
have to be tactful here considering my fiancee will be reading this
My ex fiancee.. I no longer fancy. I like her as a friend but I feel nothing towards her in that other way. I have ex girlfriends I never think about and one I actively dislike. So feelings can and do change.
that said.. I do still have a soft spot for my childhood sweetheart from when i was in primary school . i don't "fancy" her per se.. the feelings come from a time when all I wanted to do was share my sherbet dib dab with her (now now you dirty minded fiends enough of that!) and perhaps play "kiss chase"
I feel very warmly towards her but it's a pure childlike feeling, simpler and less complicated than this love/lust nonsense
I guess there's some people for whatever reason you'll continue to carry a torch for.. even if that is a plastic toy "jamie and the magic torch" torch
hmmmm all of the above is very interesing thank you all but I wasn't really getting at er, well rounded relationships and er, love and er, letting go of the past etc. I just meant, er, sexual chemistry. IE if you wanted to once would part of you want to again, say, 10 years later. Not "would you actually do it given current relationships/cirumstances" just COULD you do it, if free as a bird with no ties yada yada, because you were still attracted to them.
I think Dave got it, if there's a buzz there'll always be a buzz, and this is what I have found more often than not, but then maybe I actually am a bigger slapper than I thought .....Duncan seems to lean the other way which is fair enough, what I was wondering was which view prevails.
anyone worked out that I've been watching SATC DVDs??
Sometimes yes and sometimes no. Some exes have turned into friends, and there any frisson has been turned into something else. However there was one ex whom I kept trying to turn into a friend, but who kept morphing into a lover and then back to friend again. For 10 years! Thankfully I no longer see him anymore, so I don't know how I'd feel if I saw him again (last time was about 4 or 5 years ago I think).
LOL, touched a nerve have we? I have no idea who you actually are beyond someone woodface made eat their words a while back....
I just assumed with your talk of climbing a hill you meant it was a long way to get on top and that with a bird that big a nickname of 'shallow' is quite likely to fit well (or indeed not fit well to be more accurate). Clearly I credited you with too much intelligence
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