Why are gay men so attractive (to women)?

[Tiger Pants]

There's a lot more bi-sexuality around than a lot of people would like to admit to

..and I understand it don't respond to anti-biotics.

[Tiger Pants]

So if gay men are attractive to women, are there some cases of women being attractive to gay men??

I'm sure you know the answer to that one Miss B.

[Filthy Monkey]

They're not quite as safe as you might think! There's a lot more bi-sexuality around than a lot of people would like to admit to

Now that you mention it, you did sound quite excited about sharing a chalet at Camber with Georgious...

[Twirly]

Now that you mention it, you did sound quite excited about sharing a chalet at Camber with Georgious...

That's actually because when we decided to share, she promised me that she'd probably turn up even if she was injured, which after the last couple of Cambers (ended up on my own last time), is quite a relief. So stop that Filthy over active imagination

Mind you... Beo was ill at SP, so maybe it's the thought of sharing a chalet with me that makes people ill and not turn up

[Baruch]

Just because I paint my toe nails, all of the time, and paint my fingernails for weekenders, does not gay make me.

But make you speak like Yoda it does, hmmmm?

[fletch]

Come on.
Yours' much larger than Easily led's, similar to Donna's, but slightly smaller than Gav's or Trouble's, which are both smaller than mine.
Lory's and Fletch's are huge, but the largest one is David Bailey's. It is not brains, and shouldn't take much to figure it out either

so with my large green bar, bearing in mind it has no refelection on my brain power, how are we at figuring out the answer to the question several post above, regarding straight men teaching gay guy a thing or to

Especially when they (the straight guys ) have had too much beer

so does this mean we can ask questions while your inhbreiated

You are gorgeous when I am sober, which is most of the time as I only drink very little.

Anyway stop being a tease or The Librarian will smack the sh1t out of the pair of us.

DTS XXX XXX

thas I would have to see, the Librarian smacking DTS somehow I dont think its his style

They're not quite as safe as you might think! There's a lot more bi-sexuality around than a lot of people would like to admit to

admit? to you or me, you would be surprised what I know

[Trouble]

Ask Trouble on this one she can answer.

DTS XXX XXX

Answer this one DTS, are you sure you can take the pain of rejection again. This particular gay man was attracted to me and not you. It took you weeks of counselling to get over it when he told you. Im not sure we should rekindle the memory.

[Beowulf]

They're not quite as safe as you might think! There's a lot more bi-sexuality around than a lot of people would like to admit to

Now that you mention it, you did sound quite excited about sharing a chalet at Camber with Georgious...

Twirly.. our secret's out (of the closet) yes .. we admit it's just a marriage of convenience for both of us

I've never been quite the same since meeting DTS at Southport.. My he can turn a man's eye

[dave the scaffolder]

Easy now sport fans I have been cruelly rejected by a gay man who said he preferd Trouble to me,gutted was I.

Beo I dont think I could take that kind of rejection again .

DTS XXX XXX

[Lory]

There's a lot more bi-sexuality around than a lot of people would like to admit to

I wonder if there's more stigma attached to being Bi-sexual, than there is to being Gay these days?

[Astro]

But, there were two guys on my holiday, who were probably the best looking guys i've ever seen.
They we're both over 6ft and their skin literally glowed ( I actually wanted to ask them what they used) They both had plucked and shaped eyebrows and I think they must have tinted their eyelashes and worn blue contacts too. (none of this was over done in a completely over the top sort of way, just very very groomed)
Every inch of their body's ripples with muscles and they'd onbviously waxed every hair.
If i'm honest, I'm actually couldn't take my eyes off of them but
I couldn't make up my mind if I kept looking because they looked so wonderful or maybe cos they looked a bit freaky? (cos they were so perfect! )

Part of the looking would be professional interest surely.

I do have a propensity to fancy gay men. Damn

[Caz]

I do have a propensity to fancy gay men. Damn

Me too.. mind you.. I always seem to fancy the guys I can't have.....

[Minnie M]

.. I always seem to fancy the guys I can't have.....

What kind of gay guy can you have

[Caz]

What kind of gay guy can you have

Meant just in general... usually find the gay ones damned attractive or end up fancying people completely out of my league etc (or worst case scenario, the ones already attached..)....no harm i looking tho I guess

[frodo]

I wonder if there's more stigma attached to being Bi-sexual, than there is to being Gay these days?

It might be considered that gay or straight is what you are, whereas bi-sexual is a lifestyle choice.

There are many lifestyle choices that it may be quite legitimate to criticise.

[Twirly]

It might be considered that gay or straight is what you are, whereas bi-sexual is a lifestyle choice.

There are many lifestyle choices that it may be quite legitimate to criticise.

I think that you'll find that Freud thought we were all bisexual, and it's those who stick themselves in the gay/straight boxes who are deluding themselves

[Lory]

It might be considered that gay or straight is what you are, whereas bi-sexual is a lifestyle choice.

Yes but maybe someone's unsure and has to go through the Bi-sexual phase to find out for definite?

[Mr Darcy]

Yes but maybe someone's unsure and has to go through the Bi-sexual phase to find out for definite?

Just my experience but, none of the bi people I've known seemed to have any desire to move completely into one little labelled box or another (gay or straight), why would they want to give up the variety just so that other people could neatly categorise them?

[Poi Boi]

Yes but maybe someone's unsure and has to go through the Bi-sexual phase to find out for definite?

When I used to live in Sydney, seeing gay/lesbian, transexual/transvestites etc became quite common. The Mardis Gras Parade there is a massive gay pride parade and was lots of fun to watch. So its not suprising I got to know quite a lot of gay/lesbian people. The ones who were homosexual mostly said they pretty much knew it their whole lives, some lived in denial, but it was always there as a thing for them. The ones who were Bi-sexual, mostly just didn't see why people should stick to one gender cos of convention. If they found a guy attractive, why not chat them up, equally the same for a female. Some would just call them greedy, others non-fussy, but most just saw it as doubling their chances of finding a perfect partner, be it a male or a female.

I think most bi-sexuals just blur the lines of sexuality and to them sex is sex, regardless on what gender its with. Some may be more gay than straight though.

An interesting question then; If you met a person who would be absolutely perfect as a partner for you, and you found them physically attractive, but they were the 'wrong' gender for you, what would you do?

[Lory]

An interesting question then; If you met a person who would be absolutely perfect as a partner for you, and you found them physically attractive, but they were the 'wrong' gender for you, what would you do?

Me?

That's easy, if they were perfect and I fancied them, I don't think I'd see the gender as an issue!