Originally Posted by
DundeeDancer
I invited a female friend of mine to come and try Ceroc, she’s quite sporty in a lot of ways so I thought she would get a lot out of it.
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So I slowly took her through the steps and try my best to explain how she should have some form of inner tension in her body. I could see it wasn’t easy for her but I told her not to worry as everyone finds it difficult the first few weeks.
Then I tried the moves at half speed and it all went a bit wrong, she still wasn’t getting it and I was trying my best to keep on reassuring her but that step between stepping through the move then trying it at half speed had failed.
With that her confidence suddenly shattered. She’s usually s smiley girl but I could see she was dead sad, mouth turned down at the edges. I told her not to worry and tried some arm jive and stuff with her but it was like she had lost the will to live, it felt horrible and I felt like sh:t.
The song ended and we went back to our table, we didn’t say much, then someone came and asked me for a dance, so I went off feeling a good bit guilty.
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