I had something similar. She would somehow manage to head me off, before I could reach the guy i was intending to ask.My one used to do the same thing. Come over and interupt, when we were planning a second dance. The guys would always defer to her. (She was a much better dancer than me - I can't understand why she even needed to do that)
But one night, she really took the biscuit. I'd just finished dancing the penultimate song with a guy, (who i'd also concidered a friend), the DJ stopped the music to announce the last song etc and my partner and I were still in a half embrace, two arms linked, facing the stage... clearly staying on for the last song. When she came up to him, all smiles and begging looks and with that, she slid her arm, through our linked arms and basically backed into me, pushing me out of the way.
What I did, was I made a point of approching her and asking her name. Calling her out, so to speak, without actually calling her out. She was fine after that.
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