Quote Originally Posted by dep View Post
I consider it is my partner's duty to inform me if she is not happy with a series of moves/positions. They have the right to complain to me in person. Then if I choose to ignore their advice to take it further.
Please speak up. I at least expect it.


It only takes a moment to say "please don't do that" or "that's uncomfortable". A quick word with the person in question is far more constructive than going and gossiping behind their back when they were only (perhaps badly) leading into a blues hold for example, and then wonder why no one else dances with them again! If you wouldn't say something about someone to their face, chances are you shouldn't be saying it at all.