Thanks for clarifying that.
Yep - Gloves at a dance event in winter - icky or what.
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This is an interesting thread.
What this thread has done personally for me is, to make me consider my actions on the dance scene.
There are people who get upset when refused, and this dance scene is about having fun, if someone upsets you for refusing your whole night may be ruined.
So in the future I will endeavor to not refuse anyone again and generally try to be more approachable and nicer.
One of my earlier posts commented upon a look that I found distressing, the lady in question has talked to me about it and I, as usual grasped the wrong end of the stick, I am now looking forward to a lot of dances with this lady in the future.
It is easy to misread a look or gesture the wrong way.
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I am experiencing more serenity in my life at the moment, God this sounds so sicky but dancing is so important to my life.
This dancing milarky has civilised me no end.
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I think they look loverly.
IMO its unrealistic to think you can't refuse, when i'm at Hammersmith, I can see a line af men I regularly dance standing waiting for me and as the track finishes I walk off in a differnet direction, its not a refusal but i'm problerbly desperate for a drink, and I do dance with them later in the evening. I would only ask, please do it in the nicest way, you don't need to do it to hurt the pearson.
I'm soooo with you on this one DTS XXX
I think the layout of a venue has some baring on the amount of refusals.
If there is another room to sit in, or even chairs away from the dance floor, it gives folks chance to have a bit of a rest,and recharge their batteries with no worries about having to refuse someone due to tiredness.
If there is nowhere to rest, apart from on chairs at the edge of the dance floor, I'm sure there will be more refusals.
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