Originally Posted by
Terpsichorea
, it's when it spills into outright bitchiness that it becomes tiresome.
There was an incident on Saturday night when I was dancing with a young lass, who, to be fair, was a very good dancer. However, throughout the dance, she had the same expression I'd wear if I was undergoing a colonoscopy. It got to the point where I said, playfully "It's alright to smile you know." She replied, "Well, I would, if I was dancing with him", pointing to a hotshot across the dance floor, before letting go and stalking off, mid-dance. Needless to say, I was pretty amazed at this, and felt very deflated.
I had a similar experience on Sunday, when I approached a similarly hotshot woman for a dance. I asked her if she wanted a dance. She turned slowly (I am not kidding), looked me up and down and said with deliberate emphasis and drawled: "No, I don't think so," and looked away.
Yes, the music was great, as were most of the workshops, and 99% of the people I danced with. But I found the head-in-the-arse attitude of a minority really hard to deal with.
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