Dance related insults!

[Cruella]

I very nearly got to the point of telling someone to "f*ck off then" after another crap refusal from the same demo (not on duty/stage tonight). 6 out of the last 7 have now been refusals.

Why do you keep asking her? If someone had turned me down a couple of times in a row I would take it that they didn't like dancing with me and not waste my time asking again. (Except for Barry, as that's just fun to make bets on.)

[martingold]

Why do you keep asking her? If someone had turned me down a couple of times in a row I would take it that they didn't like dancing with me and not waste my time asking again.

I cant see any point in beating yourself up over a refusal to dance as i have said so in the past i would take exception to rudeness though

[David Bailey]

6 out of the last 7 have now been refusals.

Why are you asking her so many times? No-one's that good.

My rule is, if I get 1 refusal, I simply don't ask again, I wait for her to ask me. If she wants to dance with me, she'll ask; if she doesn't, she won't. Simple, really.

[Andy McGregor]

My rule is, if I get 1 refusal, I simply don't ask again, I wait for her to ask me. If she wants to dance with me, she'll ask; if she doesn't, she won't. Simple, really.

I now limit this rule to a single night. If somebody refuses me I don't ask them again that night. Another night is a whole new game. However, I do stop asking if I'm refused a few nights in succession

There are only a few ladies who have made it on to my "wait for them to ask me" list. I rarely see most of them nowadays. The odd thing is that one of them is a regular at my classes and is quite friendly when we're getting coffee in the kitchen

[Sparkles]

6 out of the last 7 have now been refusals. I feel so loved.

I wouldn't bother asking *that* many times .
Three refusals are enough for me, I know when I'm not wanted . There are plenty of people to dance with, why waste your time on someone who keeps turning you down (especially if they aren't being nice enough to give a reasonable explanation)?!
Once is a fluke, twice is a coincidence but three times is a trend...

[Martin]

6 out of the last 7 have now been refusals.

Surely it is time to move on...

There are only a few ladies who have made it on to my "wait for them to ask me" list. .... The odd thing is that one of them is a regular at my classes and is quite friendly when we're getting coffee in the kitchen

Nothing odd really IMHO, just because she is happier not dancing with you, does not mean she does not want to be friendly towards you socially.

[Steven666]

Why do you keep asking her?

Nowadays, for a laugh.

[David Bailey]

Nowadays, for a laugh.

Can you imagine putting her and B****-The-Refuser in the same room?

[Andy McGregor]

Nowadays, for a laugh.

It doesn't sound like she's getting the joke.

[Martin]

It doesn't sound like she's getting the joke.

Does not sound like much of a laugh if you really thought about saying...

"f*ck off then"

[Astro]

To me, the best compliment is "would you like another?"

I can't hear well and often don't know what a guy is saying. I just smile and walk off. If he had been asking for another dance, then I would have inadvertedly offended him. (I have found this the be the case after the fact).

Also, should it be the one who was asked's turn to ask the askee for a second dance, otherwise someone would be asking twice in a row.?