It would depend if you are actually leading her, perhaps she may think you are a bad lead and it may feel like wrestling a gorilla because she is not being controlled with any direction. However, there are some follows who are terrible at following due to lack of experience mainly. This is where a follow could seek a private lesson rather than ask others in rotation at class.
I have been watching youtube ceroc and mj dancers and one thing in the social dance scene that is rampant.............most of the male leads hold their lead hand at chest height! So it is little wonder that any follow can follow, yet the leads complain about a lack of a good follow (often on the forum), when it is actually them that is the problem....................
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