Sorry to read your post Connie! That is not normal behavoiur at the venues that I go to.. We encourage new people and it is regarded as normal to dance even on your first night with people.... Sounds like the guy you danced with had his own problems but i have never been to a venue and seen behavoiur like that.
sorry to hear you had such a bad experience and i hope you do go back tonight and hopefully it will be better for you
don't let it put you off
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