Yes - agree with all of this.
One immediate issue I have found is just to connect with forum members at a Ceroc/MJ event.
For example, at Berko last night, there were forumites there - and maybe I even danced with one or 2..........who knows? I may have even talked to some........?? I just don't know....
I once thought I recognised someone from the forum at Cheshunt - and turns out I was wrong - and she didn't thank me for it - so just asking ("by the way are you on the forum?" is a non-starter) - and posting a photo isn't necessarily that close a likeness (I was sure it was someone I had seen in the forum). Of course it might just come up naturally..........in which case, fine.
It's ok if you have a starting point (eg. Fletch) - who can then just point out a few others - and so you start the ball rolling (as per Ice - thanks Fletch).
Anyway, it is not my first priority - that will always be to enjoy the dancing - but at the same time, it would be nice to know if a partner is on the forum.
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