stiff shoulders

[CJ]

Originally posted by Chicklet
you mean cos they'll all be just a bit tooooo willing to show them??xx

That hurts, Chickie D.

I'm VERY discreet with all my body art!!

[spindr]

Originally posted by JerryC
If I was honest I would have to say that I sometimes have pulled her in the wrong direction, especially when trying to learn new moves, but not that often. Probably about as often as she has stood on my toes or almost broken my fingers.[/B]

A coupla' things you can try are:
1). practice with each other gradually making the leads smaller and smaller --- keep the moves simple, and hopefully with practice you can lead/follow without much arm motion at all.
2). lead with maybe just first (or first two) fingers --- it usually makes the lead gentler and also means that if your partner holds onto your hand your fingers are more likely to rotate in their grip. [And of course they only get to break one finger at a time ]

Neil.