Theres only one person I've turned down lots. You see, I'm a young guy and ages ago I used to get stalked by this old lady that obviously fancied a bit of me.
She kept asking me to dance and acted a bit like she wanted me. Always following me round the dance floor keeping an eye on where I was.
I didnt notice for a few weeks and was happy to dance with her as its rude to refuse. But then I noticed.
The other fact was I didnt like dancing with her anyways as she was rubbish and over the weeks / months of dancing made no improvement. She used to tear at my arms and didn't "power" her own bodyweight etc so it was a horrid dance and my arms hurt.
She soon got the hint and stopped coming to jive about a month later.
I dont feel guilty for my crimes of refusing her dance requests in the end - fact is she was stalking me and she hurt me during the dances.
There is currently no-one on my "non-dance list". But serial offenders do get struck off - but dont worry, you have to be a serious stalker / weirdo / dangerous person to dance with for me to refuse ya.
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