I find that I don't really enjoy dancing unless I feel I am doing it reasonably well. It's not that I agonise over a mistake or can't laugh about them but generally the most pleasure in dancing comes from doing it as smoothly & flawlessly as possible. So that's what I would be aiming for.
Ditto, dancing to a silly song just for a laugh. I could do it if it was what was expected of me but I wouldn't be getting any enjoyment out of it and it just wouldn't feel nice. I'd rather be sitting down having a nice chat until the DJ played something decent.
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