If women were easy to please, they would be called men.
But as they are women, you have to face facts - you will never please every woman all the time with the same moves. If you manage to please any woman at least once with a move it can count as a success.
You already know this by understanding that some women love certain moves. Instead of thinking about what other moves they might like, start figuring out what it is about that move they like.
Sometimes it is easy. Some girls love multiple spins (this is known as having an Australian accent). Others love drops (an Australian accent and strong arms), or to improvise (answers to the name Wendy). But if she says her favourite move is the First Move, you have several options. Does she like the simplicity, or the close hold, or the lack of spinning for 4 counts, or the possibility of variations? You now have a map for your dance - try a few simple moves, then a few close moves, etc. See which she likes.
The hardest part about this is knowing what she likes. Being a woman, she won't tell you. You are just expected to know. You can ask about her favourite move, and after that you have to watch her when you lead her. Being a woman, she will give hints as to what she doesn't like. It becomes a process of elimination (just like marriage).
You can also get hints by asking what music they like. The more specific they are, the more they will like certain types of moves. Finally watch them dancing with other men. See what gets a reaction, and what she looks good doing.
All this involves remembering what each lady likes, and it is impossible to do this with everyone you dance with. Personally I only do this with a handful of ladies. But I am a man, and I am supposed to know nothing about what women want, so it doesn't really matter.
David
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