JiveLad
27th-March-2007, 08:47 AM
I have noticed heightened perceptive abilities - almost mind-reading skill in women during a dance. (The pre-dance 'asking' context is another rich vein of female perceptive skills - perhaps already covered adequately).
Example
I have noticed that when I screw things up in a dance it is often because I've been thinking of 2 different things I could do next and then it ends up being neither one nor the other and we get mangled.
Now, what I have noticed is (i) that 'micro' mis-management of the hands (resulting from brain sending screwed up signal) results in a 'macro' outcome in what the woman does - so there is a large amplification effect: a small 'twitch' in my fingers becomes arms and bodies all over the place (perhaps this is an example of chaos theory*)
(ii) that with some women, this amplification is almost instantaneous (maybe even pre-twitch) - and is almost like "I read your mind - and at that point you didn't know which move we were going to do".
Obviously, this is not something I try and do (!) - however, my current screw-up rate in this context is probably 2 or 3 times a night.
What's the point of this post? Dunno - it's just something that amazes me - and wondered if anyone else had any similar experiences?
* I guess that means Ceroc/MJ is a non-linear dynamical system. (?)
Example
I have noticed that when I screw things up in a dance it is often because I've been thinking of 2 different things I could do next and then it ends up being neither one nor the other and we get mangled.
Now, what I have noticed is (i) that 'micro' mis-management of the hands (resulting from brain sending screwed up signal) results in a 'macro' outcome in what the woman does - so there is a large amplification effect: a small 'twitch' in my fingers becomes arms and bodies all over the place (perhaps this is an example of chaos theory*)
(ii) that with some women, this amplification is almost instantaneous (maybe even pre-twitch) - and is almost like "I read your mind - and at that point you didn't know which move we were going to do".
Obviously, this is not something I try and do (!) - however, my current screw-up rate in this context is probably 2 or 3 times a night.
What's the point of this post? Dunno - it's just something that amazes me - and wondered if anyone else had any similar experiences?
* I guess that means Ceroc/MJ is a non-linear dynamical system. (?)